Please read my story...
There are two guys, one I reall like who does not like me, one I kind of like, and does like me.
The guy that likes me is going to ask me out...
Basically, I don't know what to do, so I made a list og goods and bads and then scored each point 1-3...
In the end---they both ended up with the same score---
So, what do you think, should I
~go with the one that likes me, but may not be socially acceptable basically giving up on the guy I really like even though I have some feelings for him
-or do I-
~pass on the guy that likes me and keep my feelings strong for the guy I really like and wait for him even though he has rejected me several times...
what do you think I should do---what would you do?!
please any and all help is appreciated!
Thanks again!
2007-09-16 09:46:45 · 15 answers · asked by simplebutsweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
age14 all around
2007-09-16 10:00:01 · update #1
Go with the guy that likes you.
It's much better to have a guy that likes you, because those relationships give women the power.
2007-09-16 09:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you mentioned "socially acceptable". Ignore this, high school social politics? you won't even remember them in a few years.
If you are really into the one guy, find out why he is rejecting you, and then make an effort to change. If you feel it is a reasonable problem and something you are willing (and able) to change about yourself, then maybe make that effort and try again with him.
If this doesn't sound good to you, then give the other guy a shot. You might be surprised and end up really liking him. Worst case, you go out with him a couple times and just aren't into him.
2007-09-22 04:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear from your story you are not an old person. In fact you sound pretty young. So on that basis, have a relationship with the guy that likes you, and see how it works out. It seems pretty clear that the guy you are interested in is not at all interested in you. There is no reason to expect that pursuing him will eventually snag him. And even if you do, I don't see him suddenly liking you out of the blue.
2007-09-16 09:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even think of going out with someone who doesn't like you? No offense, but there is something wrong with you if you keep pursuing someone who has rejected you several times. He's NOT going to change his mind.
OF COURSE, go with the guy who likes you!
2007-09-24 09:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally as People we tend to like most what dont like us back.. Its the mistery...
1. But if you really have to choose I will go out with the man that likes me .. you will have more fun.. The other guy that dont like you should have not even been a choice.. he want treat you the way you deserve Trust that...
2. Or you could just not go out with either one of them for you really would be settling.. Go out only with someone you really like and they really like you back thats called (recipication) You get back in return what you put out and the feelings are mutual..
2 would be my choice answer to go with..
2007-09-24 04:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with neither, its to early to load your self down with all this. Fat chance right? Ok dump em both anyway. You cant make someone like you and you will probably never really care about the guy who really likes you. Its the same answer eather way.
2007-09-24 09:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but y would the guy that u really like accept u after rejecting u multiple times?
go for the guy who likes u b/c he sees what is so great about u, taht the other guy can't see
2007-09-16 09:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 09:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the guy that likes u always avoid being the underdog in any relationship.
hope i helped
2007-09-24 09:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give the guy that likes you a chance
2007-09-16 12:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋