They just want to be my friend. I only seem to be able to pick up slappers. Should I be more forward if I see someone I like the look of, or should I hang back?
2007-09-16 01:10:21 · 20 answers · asked by Superdude 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be more forward. dress smarter.....change your image perhaps......that may attract the nice girls more..give it a go... good luck..
2007-09-16 01:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will find a partner when you least expect , dont go delibratley out on the hunt for a girl as you will probably look like you are desperate, and scare them off. Slappers can see that you are on the hunt and just want a good time but if you bide your time I am sure you will find someone who is 'nice'.
2007-09-16 08:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by rosettayelow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably don't go out with you because they know you only go out with slappers and don't want to get mistaken for one. Or perhaps you make slapper-type approaches to them which is highly insulting. Maybe you are just interested in sex and show it. That sort of tunnel vision won't wash with a nice girl either. She would want a bit more out of a relationship than a spot of carnal knowledge with you. I suggest you watch one of your mates approach a nice girl and see how it's done properly. Then you can stop giving out the wrong sort of vibes. Good luck.
2007-09-16 08:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by chris n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with a lot of slappers, it'll put a lot of nice girls off. It's all in your personality. Be sincere
2007-09-16 08:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by erika h 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok ...im what you call a nice girl
i would NEVER go out with someone who dates slappers because i would think you expect too much
and you would proberly use me
Stop dating slappers ... it gives you a bad rep
2007-09-16 08:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eventually you will find the right one, if you are picking up "slappers" then you know they are not the ones you want a relationship with.
Good luck
2007-09-16 08:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem getting nice men to go out with me. All they seem to want is sex & if they don't get it, they run like the wind! Be more forward sure, but be nice yourself. Leave it a few dates before sleeping with a girl but make it clear you do want to but that you have morals. I always get told to be myself & if they aren't right for me to move on!
2007-09-16 08:36:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmmmmm my own opinion is looks DO matter, cos thats the initial attraction isn't it???
You fall in lust ..... get to know the real them and then fall in love with who they are .... its their soul you fall in love with ... but I disagree that looks don't matter ... and hello last time I heard just cos your a looker don't mean your a slapper ??????
Lifes too short if you like someone and can handle the rejection bloody go for it if they're not interested then your not wasting your time .... good luck
oh and one more thing .... just cos a girl likes sex doesn't make her a slapper either
2007-09-16 08:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will find the right one when it's time. Just wait and don't just live with a random girl for the rest of the life. Go forward... always!
2007-09-16 08:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u r going to love a girl based on her look ,is like judging on a book from its cover.you might love a tall,thin,beautiful and sexy girl that might be mean,jealous and have many bad adjectives .so u have to pick a girl whose isn't just beautiful from outside only ,also from inside and have a great spirit.and if you are a great boy believe me ,u will find your perfect match!!!:)
2007-09-16 08:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by princess bushra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will looks are not ever thing but you can't be with some one that you don't like to look at! if you love your self your well find some one that love you! if you don't love your self they well see that and treat are the way you treat your self so think about how you put your self out there
2007-09-16 08:18:16 · answer #11 · answered by dorothy b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋