Well i asked her if she knew any Jobs That i could have to make money..And everyone i tell her she always comes up with an excuse to say no...Like i asked her if i could water peoples plants and she said..
Mum:How?
Me:I will bring a water bottle
Mum:Well how are you gonna get there?
Me:If its close ill walk.If its not Dad can drive me......Mum?
Mum:No
She has done this or every suggestion..Im 12 and I need Money!
They say i should earn it but when i want to she says no to every job!
Plz help me!!!
2007-09-16 22:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes i have asked her for suggestions but she says she doesnt know any
2007-09-16 22:36:11 · update #1
your mom is just concern about you.. she worry maybe something happen to you when you go work and your still young.
be happy you have parents to guide you and be there for you.
2007-09-16 22:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about babysitting? I'm sure that your mother knows someone who can use a good babysitter. You may want to ask your mom about doing extra household chores for an allowance. Also, do you attend a local church? You may want to ask the vicar if there is any work around the church that you can do for a little pocket money. This will give you an environment that your mom is familiar with & is safe.
Your mom is just worried about you. There are lots of people that would harm a 12 year old girl out there & many may be people that you think that you know & trust.
2007-09-16 22:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahahaha!
You want your dad to drive you to a plant-watering job!
Sorry, how long do you see your dad keeping this up??
If you want to make money in your situation, here's the advice:
1. Stop annoying your mother. You are making up silly, non-existent jobs. You are hoping she will agree there is nothing to do for you and will give you money for free.
2. Find a job without asking your mother first. You have annoyed her enough and there is no cooperation coming from her.
3. Don't make up jobs. Find a job that actually exists. Preferably one with a bit of continuity.
Jobs for 12 year olds: Babysitting.
Perhaps shopping for elder people, or washing cars.
4. Jobs don't find you. You find them. And you don't find them at your mother's.
Make ads for the local store. Advertise yourself to the whole neighbourhood. You can do this without need for embarrasment because you're a kid, and you're willing to work for money. A commendable attitude!
Keep it up. Some people will actually need a babysitter and you will be hired.
2007-09-16 23:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by mgerben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carrying bottles of water to and fro for a several minutes is tiring. And petrol is costly, you won't earn anything if your dad ask you to pay for it. Try earning by selling stuffs to your friends and classmates.. If you can bake, bake something that you can sell per piece. If you like arts, you can make personalized greeting cards or make friendship bracelets, anything that's in. If you're neither of the two, I suggest that you buy something- stationeries, stickers etc that you can sell. Ask an adult for supervision. Good luck
2007-09-16 22:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kaye Bennette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well adolescence bring in a lot of change in you. The rebel within you wakes up. You tend to differ in every aspect with your previous generation. The best thing you can do is to differ without spoiling the sanctity of your relation with your mom. I am sure when you grow up a bit more into your teens you will be a wonderful girl who gels better with your mom.
2007-09-20 22:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by hunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to crochet baby booties, and sell them to the high school girls for their hope chests. I also made craft things like friendship bracelets, necklaces, and earrings and sold them. You can get the beads, hooks, and other supplies at any craft store. Also, you might want to clean an elderly ladies house for a charge. Babysitting is a good idea for next year.
2007-09-16 22:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be able to desire to devour a minimum of thrice an afternoon..5 on the main.yet small parts.Dont starve yourslef! And in case you think of she feeds you risky meals,then make your very own.Make yourselfs salads,finished wheat sandwhiches,healthy meals yet as quickly as a week have dinner like pizza or dessert like cake or some thing.Andget exercize swim,shipment(crunches,pushups,leaping jacks,activities(baseball,basketball,swimmin... so on.)and jog each and every toher day like 2-3 miles.and while your mum is long gone,circulate via your nutrition,throw out all junk meals to boot like one pizza and cake mixes.AFTER month-to-month procuring.and then chat consisting of your mom..tell her the form you sense greater advantageous then ever being healthy,and she or he desires to do somethig too.
2016-12-26 14:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is.. ur mom is concerned and protective of u.. she soesn't want anything to happen to you... i know i need money.. but at 12??? well if u really wanna earn for a living.. ask ur mom this... "that u wanna help in the expenses like food and other stuffs that u need... u know that they can provide them but u wanna learn to be independent and what is it to make a living... ask her that u wanna give it a try...
2007-09-16 23:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well frnd .. ur mom is too conservative of u .. n she is worried abt wht others wil think if she takes a bad decision for u .. so she is doing her bst to b a mom .. which is kinda ok... but u r not doing ur part.. all u have to do is talk to her frankly .. tell her tht u want freedom a lil bit more . n tht u r old enuf to take altlest small decisions... well express ur self to her ... children can give their parents advice too ... :P
2007-09-16 22:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur mum not so annoying if u see deep in her heart she worried about u..she worried that u can't do that job, or maybe u might get hurt. or maybe ur mum just stand a minute away from u.
2007-09-17 01:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by leeza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋