To listen to your mum or to your husband. To a married wife, who's the most important person between a husband or your mum??If it was you, whom do you select??
2007-09-16 23:49:48 · 16 answers · asked by Bubbly_Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Thats such a hard one!
In my experience, I usually listen to my mum if I agree with her side more, then I go back to my Hubby to be and palm off my mums idea as my own and explain why I chose that way, so that he doesn't know it came from my mum. And vice-versa, if I agree with my partner more.
I'm really close to my mum so she almost always wins, she understands better (she is female!!).
Just be careful not to let this come between your husband and you mothers relationship, there is nothing worse than your husband not getting along with your mum and your mum not liking your husband.
2007-09-17 01:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by christy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Husband. When you marry, your husband is now the most important person in your life and he needs to come before others. People who put their parents before their spouse usually end up not being in a good marriage.
2007-09-17 00:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by tink 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We always have a choice and a brain to make our own decision. Advice is always worth listening to, but neither the husband or the mother should be telling the wife what to do.
2007-09-17 00:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are married, you need to listen to your spouse of course! If you do not like what your spouse is saying, he still has a right to his own feelings and beliefs. You need to allow him that right, just as he should allow you to have your own feelings and beliefs.
Do not let your mother get in between you and your husband.
2007-09-17 00:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rev. Deb 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should choose your husband while you are married, but its not a question whom to listen to... you should evaluate both's opinion and find the best solution in each different situation. eventually any decision you take should be your own!
2007-09-17 01:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by trushka 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on the situation. I tend to do my own thing, no matter what people advise anyway, but if anyone had an idea I thought sounded like it made sense, I'd go with that.
2007-09-17 02:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the issue. I would listen to myself before anyone else, and decide what the right course of action is.
2007-09-17 06:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself first, then dependent upon the situation listen to whomever is knowledgeable and realistic in the situation.
2007-09-17 06:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband is #1.
And, it depends on what each are saying.
2007-09-17 05:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry, your parents give you away. Now your husband comes before anyone.
2007-09-16 23:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by 3030gal 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋