I met this guy friend a yr ago and he moved to another country shortly after we met. He asked me to travel with him before he left but I couldnt even though I was crazy over him. Anyway we kept in touch by chat & mail and a little bit of flirting now & then. So we arranged that as I was going on vacation to where he lives that we would meet up. He even said hurry up & come over. Right I was so looking fwd to it. Anyhow, we met a couple of days ago & I'm really into him. Hes also attracted. We kissed & a bit more but not sex. Problem is he had arranged his vacation with another guy to leave today & asked me to come..kind of roughing it in a car. I was delighted he asked me! The friend told me to come as well. Guess what? last night he sent me a text 'Listen, it wont work three of us travelling' and that's all. I havnt answered..just gutted! Ok he has a point it would be difficult but couldnt he have said 'be in touch or something? Hes much younger 25 I'm 45 but look 35
2007-09-16 22:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think that is just rude especially to ask you to travel and then leave.
i think he rather be with his mates. if he was really keen (not saying he isnt) but he would have canceled with hus mate to be with you if u were going to be on vacation for a short time.
2007-09-16 22:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 45 and asking this type of question? At your age I would think you would get it by now. He is not ready to commit to anything at his age and he has proved it. Time to move on and maybe with a little older guy. There are plenty of men closer to home, why leave the country just to meet up with some young guy that has not even figured himself out yet?
2007-09-16 22:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by sweetangelgreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg the answer is so clear...he is traveling with another guy and tells you three is s crowd.....wake up he would rather be with the other guy then with you...he just wanted to see if the sparks would fly with a female one last time before he committed to his new guy friend.
2007-09-19 04:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, enjoy ur life with him....make use of the chance u get when it is available to u....since it is haunting ur mind, no doubt, u have to go for it.
It is better to live and have sex with a guy whom you like and have a crush than a guy who has a crush on u.
GO FOR HIM
KISSES
LOLA
2007-09-16 22:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. he's TOO YOUNG for you to waste your time with. you might look 35, but the fact is, you are 45, and he's 25.
2007-09-16 22:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in charge for no longer something yet your very own movements. he will see his egoism and selfishness in basic terms once you supply up permitting him his egoism and selfishness. to do you should offer up seeing him. till you do, no longer something will replace. you sense undesirable for his spouse, yet your very own movements are hurting her. supply up seeing him.
2016-11-14 16:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋