i got a message from him on facebook last night, the first i've heard from him since he cancelled our date last week. It just said hi, how have things been? ok the way i see it I've got 3 options here: 1) ignore it, thereby showing him i think he's behaved badly and i don't want anything to do with him 2) answer in a completely normal, friendly way as though nothing's happened and i'm not bothered by what he did, or 3) ask him what happened, why his tone changed so drastically, why he didn't just say if he didn't want to see me again etc. but I guess it's obvious he's not interested so this wouldn't change things! and it would just show him I cared, which if he's not interested, I don't want him to know! But at the same time my sense of justice tells me he should be told that he's behaved badly! I REALLY don't know what to do! advice please! many thanks x
2007-09-16 22:46:22 · 14 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Option 3, that way you know why he cancelled? If its a valid reason then theres no reason to get mad.
2007-09-20 00:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say fine, what happened to you last week? He may have a good excuse. If he acts like he is sorry and gives you a good reason for the cancellation, great. If he doesn't, kind of give him the cold shoulder, and tell him that you have to go. He will get the message.
2007-09-16 22:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously wasn't interested in an actual 'date' with you and that is why he canceled . Now he thinks that he can just act as though nothing has happened by acting casual. Forget him! He's not interested in a bf/ g/f 'relationship' with you. He may be just looking you up now for a booty call. Tell him that you find it interesting that he 'suddenly' is contacting you and that you're not interested someone that is just looking for sex!
2007-09-16 22:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for option 1!! Ignoring him is the worst punishment as he won't know what to think and at the same time he will feel guilty and that's the point!! Good luck!!
2007-09-17 00:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either option 1 or 2.
And he must be a tad interested or he wouldn't have bothered emailing you last night!
2007-09-16 22:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer is 3, as I & 2 aren't really going to give you the closure that you need. Best just to honest with yourself and admit that you need to know why otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for everyones opinions. Trust you gut feeling and go with that, cas in your heart you know what the answer is, just be brave and be true to you.
2007-09-16 22:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 08:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Options 1 and 2 are viable. Three is taking you nowhere.
2007-09-16 22:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by Honeyface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men consider women like shoes after time he need to replace by new ones,so opition 1 is u choice and pull the shoes before replaced.
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2007-09-16 23:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by mile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for option no 3
2007-09-16 22:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Vikram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋