Hey there.
I'm a student and I had a meeting today with this women at my school for a work study position. i was 15 minutes late bc something came up and i couldnt call in bc the women never gave me her name or number. anyways i came in late and apoligized and explained why i was late. but this lady flipped out on me. i understand, i was in the wrong, but she could have handled it better...or simply tell me that she doesnt want to hire me. instead she went on a power trip about how she could say "BYE" to me right now and never see me again, and how she doesnt tolerate what i did and how i made a HORRIBLE impression on her. she ranted for at least 5 minutes, and rolled her eyes at me. I just thought she was going too far, but maybe I was being sensitive?
well she came across as a total *****, i never met anyone more unpleasant in my life...and i'd be working directly under her.
should i take the job, or keep my pride and decline it?
i need the money, but not that bad!
2007-09-12 18:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by eMteMind 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's always going to be someone like this in every job you ever have in your life - might as well take the money and job experience.
In the end, you'll have something for your resume AND you'll know how to put a wall between you and your goals and distractions/people who are hard to work with.
You will learn to focus on yourself even when someone's ranting away in the corner - not a bad job skill.
2007-09-12 18:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the position is offered take it. You were late so what can you expect. Had you been on time do you think she would be hard to work with. You would learn so many skills by taking it. Every job you go on there is gonna be that one person that you dont like or get along with or even be ranting on bout something. Just go and do your job and you wont have nothing to worry bout.
2007-09-12 18:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mo Mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to *her* supervisor and explain that you won't be taking the position because of her unprofessional behavior. Granted, you shouldn't have been late, but her reaction was inappropriate as well. Never mind the money or your pride, this woman isn't worth your sanity. There are other jobs out there.
2007-09-12 18:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if she's that crazy at the interview, can you imagine what she'd be like to work for? No way! Some stuff just ain't worth the money. Find a different job that you can enjoy and won't have to feel like you're walking on eggs.
2007-09-12 18:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you like to maintain your job than what i could do first is study on the difficulty of instructor and pupil relationships. As your interpreting this pay close interest to specifics! do some information superhighway study on bypass instructors adventure does no longer be a bad concept. yet once you hit upon that that's beside the point than there is 3 alternatives: a million. quiet your job and date her 2. you are able to confer along with her and appreciate her yet act the way you may along with your cutting-edge pupils 3. evade her thoroughly.....i comprehend it fairly is complicated because of the fact i had a solid experience for my intern instructor whether it in simple terms ought to no longer take place. every time I observed her, she introduced a grin to my face, i could no longer end questioning approximately her actually each and everything i did made me think of of her fantastically as quickly as I spoke french. As you will discover i'm nonetheless no longer over her whether it has calmed down. Is it morally proper, each and every individual has their very own morals. the determination is yours to make. as a manner to help you place those ideas cells jointly and prefer my 2d grade instructor consistently made us make a chart of advantageous and unfavourable. yet in addition shop on with your thoughts.
2016-11-15 02:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pride hun. Don't work for a tyrant. It really sucks.
2007-09-12 18:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know right away, that she wasnt gonna talk to me like that. if that lost me the job so be it. if not then great.
2007-09-12 19:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your pride.
2007-09-12 18:37:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look for another job.
2007-09-12 18:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋