We have no mutual friends so when we hang out, it's just the two of us. Problem is, it's been two years and I like him more than a friend and I'm pretty sure he doesn't see me that way. To him, I'm just a small lady who says funny things and I'm one of his odd friends whom he enjoys conversing with.
How can I make him see that I am "date-able?" Are there things I can do so that I appear more attractive to him so that he'll see me differently but in a more positive light? Please help.
2007-09-12 19:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by LindK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not thiniking right. he may also be considering you mor ethan alady to talk. but he may be afraid o f losing yo uby saying tha the wants to go further. he wants your initiation. so intiiate and tell this to him. he will welcome. i am a guy and know that every guy with a girl for long time nevere thinks her only as friend even he is intending that. all boys want to go furhter very early than girls want to do. ask him and he will tell you how long ago he wanted this but dont tell you. so you have just to tell him.
2007-09-12 20:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked him out for a romantic dinner to some place nice? Or make a nice dinner for him at your place? Dress up in your best, sexy dress, and have your hair, make-up and everything else perfect, and at that point, he should start to see you in a different light. If not he is probably just not intrested. Some men are pretty thick skulled and you may have to ask him straight out, because they miss all of the signs. That is how I got my husband, I had men taking me out all of the time, and sometimes, I would have too many dates for the night and would have to come up with excuses to get rid of a few of them, yet the one that I had my eye on was acting only like a friend to me. Finally, I asked him straight out, and he was really surprised, and he had missed all of my flirting signals, even thought everyone else could pick up on it. So if you really like this guy, you may just have to ask him up front if nothing else works.
2007-09-12 19:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by gigi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's genuinely not intrsd in u find someone else who cares for u and is attracted to u and for this guy no matter how attractive u become he'll treat u the same way cuz he's habituated in seeing u this way!
2007-09-12 19:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I wouldn't want to be with someone whom I had to "make" fall for me. Free will is free will and I'd rather be dating someone who liked me right off the bat.
2007-09-12 19:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him If he would like to go out
on a date with you.
" Take the bull by the horns ".
2007-09-12 19:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop clues using niceties. you could inform him of your desire to be more than friends.
2007-09-12 19:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this to him, " i like you"
2007-09-12 19:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by V L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋