We have been in love more than two years.We both pray 5 times a day. But recently we have some great mistakes.We have seen and touched each others very private parts of body. Have we done an unforgivable mistake in the view of Islam?Now we are adament not to do that again before we are married.We have not committed sexual intercourse with each other yet.
2007-09-12 18:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by tomal e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask your grandma what you should do
2007-09-12 18:07:15 · answer #1 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with test driving a vehicle before actually buying it.
there is nothing wrong with touching the merchandise before purchasing it.
there is nothing wrong with trying on a pair of pants before buying them.
do you get my drift?
You haven't committed to having sex yet. You haven't had sex yet.
You guys was curious, and through your beliefs knew you should stop.
its human nature to learn from your mistakes - are you telling me that the view of Islam is not lenient towards lustful mistakes that were corrected soon after?
I don't know your views of Islam but where I'm from, murder is an unforgivable mistake. Not love nor the passion with the person you love.
not sure if I answered your question or not.....hope I did though.
To solve your problems, hurry up and get married. That way you don't have to worry about an UNFORGIVABLE mistake.
2007-09-12 18:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God forgives ALL sins. In order to sustain, ask yourself what is more important to you, feeding into your sexual urges (which is normal for anyone), or keeping your relationship honest and holy?
It will be so much better on your wedding day knowing you stayed true to your beliefs, it'll be that much more special and enjoyable.
2007-09-12 18:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Amica2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what's your question? You did something wrong, then regretted it and now you've committed to do better in the future. That tends to be forgiven in almost any faith - and if not, it's no faith worth your loyalty.
2007-09-12 18:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. you made a mistake. i think God knows if you are or arent sorry in your hearts. He knows. stay on a good path and happy ramadan to you and good luck and prosperity in all things in your lives together.
2007-09-12 18:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real.
Why do you make life out as sinful?
Get real and live life for cat sake.
2007-09-12 18:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that strongly about it, ask God for forgiveness.
2007-09-12 18:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with dukefenton. i could not of answered your question any better.
2007-09-12 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋