I just walked in on my roommate. he was on the bed cuddling with a girl. the thing is, this girl is one of my friend's girlfriend! i could've understood sitting up on the bed w/ their backs against the wall watching t.v. and found that acceptable. but no, they were underneath the blankets! and she was laying on his chest with his arm around her. I honestly believe if they start out with this it'll continue and go to the next level. what do you think?
2007-09-12 17:22:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hello there...
Obviously she already cheated your friend..
You should tell him about her, so that your friend can find another gal...instead of her..
or maybe you can give her another chance to explain..but i don't think she would be honest.
2007-09-12 17:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by yippie_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah, that's kind of cheating. Tell your friend you've got some bad news and spill. Otherwise it'll come out some other way and he'll get hurt worse. Just tell him, get it over with. At first he'll deny it, but try to make him understand. If you really care about your friend you'll tell him. Stop it before it gets to the next level. Just stop before it gets out of hand.
2007-09-12 17:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! yep that is cheating... Not to mention they have just put you in a bad position to be in. As a friend you have a obligation to tell what is going on... but on the other hand you have to live with your roommate.. Have no doubt what they were doing is CHEATING.
2007-09-12 17:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by wizrcam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel , no it will led to the next level. I am in college and I am kind of like that girl. But the guy is the one that has the girl . College kind of have that try something new crazy solution.
2007-09-12 17:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by so thick and sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I found my ex-bf with another girl in the same situation and that is why he is my ex now.
I guess cheating is very vague but you must imagine what if it was your gf who was doing that. Put yourself in your friend's shoes, would you be able to accept what your gf did? Then, you'll have your answer.
2007-09-12 17:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get that "friendly" with a guy unless something is going on. Yes it's cheating even if they didn't sleep together. Unless the girl's other relationship isn't that serious.
2007-09-12 17:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating and it sound like they have been doing it for awhile. You need to talk to your roommate to see what is you with him and her because if your other friend find out and then find out that you know he is also going to be mad at you too.
2007-09-12 17:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by blinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And .... this is your business?
It's between the two of them -- and finally the other guy. By their choice to tell him.
Don't you even get mixed up in it -- except it would be okay to talk to your roomie later and suggest the best thing to do is to let the BF know.
2007-09-12 18:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. If her boyfriend walked in and saw that he'd probably punch your roommate. I don't envy your position. If you say nothing your friend may think you're not being loyal to him. If do say something all hell is going to break loose! Good luck with this one...
2007-09-12 17:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating. Dont go marking her with a scarlett letter just yet, but i would be a little miffed if i found out my bf was doing that with some girl....
2007-09-12 17:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think prolly. But you didn't explain how any of this was any of your business.
Are you & your roomate in a relationship? Was it your bed? Was it your girl?
If this is cheating who's he cheating on anyway?
I didn get it.
2007-09-12 17:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋