Okay my best mate has been my friend for ages n last year i used to hang out wit her and her other mates too, but then ova da summer i said something stupid, i said omg im so fat in front of someone whhos bigga dan me... then i fell out wit her and her mates nd they were leaving nasty messages on my account. Then i made up wid ma best mate but then did summit else stoopid, i told anotha mate wat anotha mate said about her behind her back... the otha girl said i woz lying so they accused me of trying to spilt em up now every one hates me except one person (ma best mate) but that isnt my consolation coz she hangs out wid the othas. Im so lonely and i miss all my mates... and people keep saying things that reallii hurts ma feeling... ='[ ty xxx
2007-09-12 22:24:04 · 3 answers · asked by hunnii b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since you miss your friends so intensely why are you so careless with your comments when they're around? It takes very little time to think before speaking....anything that comes to mind that might even hint of a red flag can be easily self-censored before you even open your mouth. It is a valuable skill to learn which will save you enormous grief in the future, and will prevent you from doing a fair amount of damage to other people.
2007-09-12 22:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In friendship , there will be always some difference of opinion will be there. You do not mind for that and have open talk with all in a group and ask them to excuse you for what had happened . Real friend will definitely accept your feelings and then move smoothly. All the best Yours VRVRAO
2007-09-13 02:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well that was pretty dumb to do I must admit. But, don't worry just try to apologize and explain how things were. Tell them that it was not your intention to split them up. The truth should work. Ever tried that???
Hope it helps, if not sorry.
2007-09-12 22:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋