My friend whom I have a crush on was sending me home and in the car while driving, he smacked my thigh cos I said something funny but rude. I pretended like it never happened and continued talking about something else because I didn't want him to know I like him by keeping quiet after I was touched...
I don't want him to smack my thigh, I was hoping he would touch my shoulder to usher me into a cinema or some place - you know, THAT kind of touch. Is he toying with my emotions? Because I really like him but I don't think he likes me that way... What can I do about this guy?
2007-09-12 20:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by LindK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its great that you did not show any emotion after that smack.However you can try to get him to a cinema watching a romantic movie so that he would have to show you the tender side of his.By holding hands,etc....By then you can respond in a manner that you like it that way instead of those smackings.
2007-09-12 20:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by alvin 1 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should ask him out to the cinema or something. He might not realize how you feel and may feel the same way. Touch him, a slight touch on the shoulder, arm, chest or thigh. If you don't try, you will never know how he feels.
Good luck
2007-09-13 03:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jennpher :) 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lol i think that could be a sign he likes you... SOME guys try to start off with a suttle unnoticable tuch pinch or light slap and then move up to what you want.. you might wanna kinda show signs that you have a crush on him and see how he reacts he might feel the same way?? And if he does then he was defenitley tryin to keep it a secret as well... BUT on the other hand he could think your just friends :-\ or hes gay lol... The hard part is finding out he feels.... good luck :-)
2007-09-13 03:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by G0tA?22 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must let him know that you dislike him smacking you on your thigh, tell him that that is not how you treat a lady, that you are suppose to touch her lightly and genitally.I think that he likes you and don't know her to present himself, so just let him know how you fell and see if he fells the same way about you.
2007-09-13 03:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats an "assult!" .....
Quickly report the matter to the "authorities"(heart). Let the "authorities" search for his records. If he has ever comitted such "crimes" before, then he should be denied the 'certificate of good conduct'... (This should take the 'authorities' afew days of assessing him.)
should the authorities acknowledge him to be of good conduct, then take him in. Go touch his thigh too: And you know where all these touching ends!!! aah, cool!. Thats why it is always important to let the authorities assess him first, before you comit yourself to the crash.
You comit yourself to this procedure, then you guys move on, without him noticing that your long crash for him was triggered to action by the touch hood.
good luck.
p.s. try and avoid him during the entire term of assessment. You can look for excuses why you turn down his offers for a ride.
2007-09-13 03:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by mr. wisdom 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Either he just thinks of you as a friend, or he has no idea how to hit on you. Make it easier for him. Touch his forearm and talk a little quietly so he has to lean in to hear you. Let him know that if he tries, he'll succeed. He may just be lacking in confidence.
2007-09-13 03:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
why did he smack you if he loves you, he should have touched youu gently, i doubt he likes you the way you like him, but if you like him that much then tell him about it or initiate the touching try touching his thigh or his chest in a way and see how he reacts to tht.
2007-09-13 03:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
usually a joke is responded to by another joke, and that's probably the reason why he touched you in the t high after that funny and rude remark. why not try to be more sensual next time and see what he does.
2007-09-13 03:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by er p 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
GO SLOW!! AND IF HE TOUCHES YOUR THIGH AGAIN, GLANCE DOWN AND LET HIM KNOW WITH THE WAY YOU GLANCE THAT IS NOT HOW YOU WANT TO BE TOUCHED. IF YOU WANT RESPECT, LET HIM KNOW BY ACTIONS , OTHER WISE HE WILL CONTINUE. NEXT TIME TRY TAKING HIS SHOULDER, IF THAT DOES'NT WORK , GIRL !!! SPEAK UP FOR YOUR SELF.
2007-09-13 03:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by mother of 4! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him what's up, guys like girls who are confident and up front with how they feel, he may have been nervous and likes you too but doesn't know how to react around you. What do you have to lose? The worst that can happen is he'll say he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. At least you wont waste your time anymore...but most likely he likes you too and just doesn't know how to approach you.
Best of luck to you and yours....
2007-09-13 03:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by passion2share 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋