How does the premerital sex effacts after marriage life..?

Answer 1

makes it better...

then there are no surprises and fears!!! :D

Answer 2

This is y they tell u before marriage, that after marriage, u shall never speak of things before. Comparisons will be there. If ur partner isn't experienced and u are, then they'll wonder if they satisfy u...and no amount of reassurance will be ok for them, since they know they werent the first one. If it's the other way around, u'll wonder if ur good enoug for them. Then one would wonder y the other relationship didn't work out. Everytime a trick is used, one would wonder, did my partner do that with someone else? The questions will never end and could end up destroying a marriage.
Then u wonder in this day and age, if u should get tested for some STD, and in india, u never know, because if someone says yes they have one, they might never get married. Then there's the consequence of pregnancy for girls, so they'll have a kid with them, which narrows their chances for a suitable mate.

This is y it's just better to rent a bunch of good ****, and have fun urself. No, it's not the cool thing to do, or it's not the same. But atleast u can have the satisfaction of being ur partner's one and only, and u guys can experience ur firsts together(u never forget ur first, no matter if ur male or female), and u'll also have an idea of what to do. There's no baggage either. With sexual relationships especially, there's almost always baggage, wheather it be for the guy, or the girl. Remember men, just like u don't want ur wife to have another first, she wouldnt want that for u either. Keep her feelings in consideration before doing something like this as well.

Answer 3

Physically you would loose the thrill of the 1st touch.Mentally the memory will haunt you.You will be climbing forever from tree to tree but the fruits will never satisfy cos you end up comparing your experience.It also shows a lack of respect or dignity to your own marriage bed & chances are you may get some one who is also torn up like you & who wouldn't want to stick around with you for long since the comparison light bulb will always light up.What you sow you reap.Nature itself testifies to that!

Answer 4

depends if it was with the person u married then whats left to be discovered about each other after marriage, marriage shld not be about how good u r in bed that shld be a trivial matter what shld matter is trust, support love for one another these r the tru things in life not enjoyment and infatuations. and if its with a different person then what have u brought into the marriage, will it not make one feel guilty about not actually saving yourself for marriage and there are also consequences of doing it before marriage...pregnancies, stds....but its a choice everyone has to make individually but must also be ready to accept the consequences of their actions....personally i feel it would affect a marriage in negative ways...

Answer 5

From my own experience I can assure you that it hurts my heart more than words can say.

If someone does have premarital sex then he/she should make sure their partner in marriage has a similar background.

Answer 6

I wouldnt buy the car without test driving it. once you sign that contract you are stuck with a lemon.

Answer 7

u think only this much........
life ruins , u cannot love ur better half,so on so forth
there r many affects if it is done before marriage.

Answer 8

i would never marry anyone i hadn't been with first........after you sign a legally binding contract is NOT the time to find out that you aren't compatible sexually.......

Answer 9

you wont suck as bad the wedding night.


so thats a plus.

muahaha.

idk.