Guys only please. Do guys like shy girls in general? Or, do they get intimidated by them?

Question

I'm shy and I have not had the best luck finding Mr. Right. I mean I do talk but, I like others to start up the conversation first.
But, I'm starting to think that guys do not like shy girls in general? If that is the case, is it because they get intimidated by them?

Answer 1

Well guys are very drawn to girls who are confident. If you are shy, that could signal to them that you aren't interested (how do they know you're shy or just ignoring them?). Guys are not intimidated by shy girls. They are bored by them.

Answer 2

Guys like girls in general. There are no limitations.
All kinds of girls. Shy, outgoing, skinny, not skinny, smart, sassy, introverted, not so smart, party types, religious, atheists...all girls. It is simply the nature of man. And the inverse is true: girls like all kinds of guys.

Your type of personality will appeal to someone who you will accept as Mr right. Just be yourself. If you are uncomfortably shy, just work on being a good friend to those you already know. Eventually, you may have to get out of your comfort zone a bit, but that is OK as long as you stay true to yourself and do not compromise. There are many guys out there who think shy is good. These same guys are turned off by aggressive females, so don't worry.

Sometimes finding Mr right just takes a while. Be patient.

If you don't feel comfortable talking to someone, just smile when you look at them. That alone will work wonders.

Good luck!

Answer 3

I used to be shy. When trying to meet people I guess it's hard for them to initially open up and start a conversation. Now, I figure the worst that can happen is they just walk away. I'm older now with a better sense of humor so now it's easy for me to walk up to someone and just say, "hello!" If you're real pretty then it can be a challenge because guys don't know if you want to be approached at all cause they may interpret you being shy as, "I don't want to talk to you so don't even think about it!"

Answer 4

I <3 asians. I do. But I cant bring myself to talk to one exactly because of that reason. Guys need to be strong and brave and if we're shy (and that's not so uncommon) and like a type of girl we will just stutter, mutter and feel embarrassed. So, in order to avoid that complication altogether we aim for something that doesn't impact us that much. Also, it is easier to talk with outgoing girls because frankly, they contribute to the conversation. Shy girls will usually just listen silently and the silence will just make us feel more embarrased. As for asians I'm not sure.. perhaps it is something about their gaze that drowns a man.

Answer 5

yeah it is i think. I'm a bit split personality like that i can be really assertive and outgoing (like in a leadership role) i can talk to anyone about anything, on the other hand i am really attracted to the cute shy kind (even know they only shy for a while lol) but it is as you say the more shy she is, the more i feel like an ox trying to do ballet lol its apparently quite funny to watch. the prob is you just don't know if she wants you to just start up a conversation or leave her alone...

Answer 6

I like shy girls. I think alot of guys like shy girls but they are not sure if the shy girl likes them or not. I think shy girls give off less signs that they like a guy therefore the guy does not know whether or not the girl likes him. The guy might not want to make a fool of himself so he might not take that risk to ask the girl out.

Thats what I think, I hope that helps.

Answer 7

It's kinda hard to get with the shy girls because when you try to talk to them, they usually have you doing all the talking. They rarely say anything so it's hard to get to know them. Now, you should probably just build up the courage to approach one guy you're interested in, and once you do that, approaching other guys will become a lot easier.

Answer 8

I am not intimidated at all by shy women. I avoid them because I don't want to do all the work when it comes to carrying on a conversation. And I wouldn't date one, because I don't want someone who sits there like a bump on a log because she's shy and won't say anything when we go out with people.

Answer 9

Shy is nice, actually, but only if she's intelligent, funny, and LIKES me also. Looks don't matter that much if she is smart, and if she will talk once we're face to face.

But there IS no Mr. Right. Or, rather, there are more than one Mr. Rights. Don't even look for him and he'll show up. And then he'll show up again.

Answer 10

I like shy girls cause i myself am a shy guy it is always nice when you meet some one that is also shy and i always have such a hard time asking someone out do to ether of us being shy .lol

Answer 11

Guys are funny that way. On the ONE hand, they like "tom boyish" girls- who they can "pal around with" & share experiences (all KINDS of experiences). And on the OTHER- they like Shy girls because it brings out the male "protective side" of us & they can play the "leader..." BECAUSE you're shy & you want the other person to "go first", you're always going to be 2nd to the girls who have NO problem introducing themselves first. Still, there are LOTS of guys out there- who would prefer YOU to the others...-so you just have to wait them out & CATCH the right guy that comes along... Good luck & happy "hunting"! :)