Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me several times in the past. I am debating to end it but am still unsure. The only reason staying with him is even an option is because of my own past as a cheater. I cheated on a previous boyfriend and it ruined everything. I loved him very much and had wanted a future with him. When I met my current boyfriend a few years ago and realized that I loved him even more than my first boyfriend, I knew I couldn't repeat past mistakes and I haven't. This is the first real relationship my boyfriend has been in. I feel like he is sorry and realizes that he needs to change as a person. I feel that I would of given anything in the world to have gotten a second chance with my ex. So, do I give him the chance I never got? Karma is a total ***** by the way.

2007-09-12 08:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 08:53:02 · 3 answers · asked by maxine m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 08:50:07 · 9 answers · asked by Diver McMuff 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep condoms in a box by my bedside in case i bring someone home and we get it on. i thought of it as smart and responsible but some of the women who see it get offended. like its part of my scheme to have sex with them. whats the deal? its not like they are in a candy jar mixed in with some blow pops for everyones enjoyment.

2007-09-12 08:47:50 · 43 answers · asked by igvin 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 08:45:16 · 1 answers · asked by Aastha 4 in Singles & Dating

when you've been with the same person for 1 year 1/2, for some reason you think you guys are good then all of the sudden the girl/boy tells you that they lost interest in you.Now you may think that you didnt do anything wrong but how is it that is so?

2007-09-12 08:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been sexually abused by one of my close colleagues that i directly work with! I am finding it extremely difficult working with him. everyone likes him and thinks his great. he swains round like nothing has happened and is always trying to laugh and joke with me like how we use to be until he did this to me. i don't know what to do. im constantly running into the toilets crying. we went out on a night out with other friends from our work place but i never imagined he would hurt me like this

2007-09-12 08:44:50 · 24 answers · asked by honey 2 in Singles & Dating

A lot of American men identify many advantages with not marrying an American woman. Although they may not be completley correct. More and more men are marrying outside of the United States.

2007-09-12 08:37:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your woman made you feel like you could slay dragons and that you were the world's greatest lover, would you even think of looking for someone else? If she cooked delicious meals, pampered you, never refused sex in general, respected your veiws, gladly gave you reign as head of the house, made your opinion more important than her friends or family, would you want another woman? If she took care of herself and worked on her appearance to remain attractive to you through the years, would you ever consider cheating?
My point is that I think women have become domineering, selfish, and blind in relationships. It's all about the 'woman's' feelings. I'm not saying to let a man walk all over you, I'm just saying give him the respect, love, and nurturing he deserves and he will cherish you like no other. Some women will say 'you are crazy', but these are the things they did while dating and trying to get their guy, so why stop?
Wanted to see the response to this, especially the guys.

2007-09-12 08:34:12 · 34 answers · asked by vixen312 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If anyone was going to answer Trojan or Lifestyles don't bother answering. I need specifics, and not from any of you amaturs. My Wedding aniverary is on the 17th and I havn't needed them because either my wife was pregnant or on the pill. So what I need is someone who knows his stuff. This will be the first full night out from the kids in 2 years, SO DON"T SCREW AROUND!!

2007-09-12 08:33:22 · 12 answers · asked by Thirsty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 08:32:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 08:31:22 · 10 answers · asked by biggshizawn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband has become super clingy. I have a very independent side and like to go out with my friends and do things by myself. We spend more time together than most people do. Every time I ask him about doing something or tell him I'm going out he freaks. Is this normal? Do all married couples spend every waking minute together? He always assumes I'm going to leave him if I go anywhere by myself. We have no kids...

2007-09-12 08:30:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how would you really rate if you are in love with somone or just have love that person

2007-09-12 08:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do we like them? I would be interested to know what other men like about them so much.. Personally, it's nice to lay your head on her pair of breasts. Comforting. What about everyone else?

2007-09-12 08:27:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's eighteen now and in sixth form college.
I've told her what I think but she ignores me. I wish my dearly departed wife could speak to her but she isn't due for release until September 2008.
I've tried to tell her that she should go and work with her two older sisters. On a good night they can bring in a couple of hundred in cash.
She doesn't consider the fact that this was what her mother wanted and I feel she is letting the family down.

2007-09-12 08:25:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am shocked by what I've heard about this film! It’s caused outrage for its graphic depiction of sexual, mental and physical child abuse that verges quite literally on kiddie porn. many people have simply walked out during the screenings — shows actor Aaron Eckhart having sex with a 13-year-old girl played by a now 19-year-old actress,His character initially takes the girl’s virginity by fondling her, in a very graphic scene that leaves nothing to the imagination.
Later, he sodomizes her. In between, his pedophilia is played in such a way that the first and only thought is that we’re watching kiddie porn. Warner Independent Pictures, a division of Time Warner has shelled out $1.3 million with partner Netflix to release the film!
What was this actor thinking? How could this girls parents (I don't care is she was 18 or not!) allow her to be in the film? I'm just appalled.....
What do you think?

2007-09-12 08:22:20 · 3 answers · asked by Lakin J 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I have Social Anxiety I've read about it and I think I have it but I don't know how to tell my mom and I don't know how she will act. Will she understand?

2007-09-12 08:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-12 08:18:11 · 18 answers · asked by marilyn 1 in Singles & Dating

he acts older than how old he is and im the eighteen year old i just need help doe sit seem weird that im dating him regardless of him being 16??? i mean many people say it is i just need some advice here please!!!??

2007-09-12 08:15:48 · 46 answers · asked by Snuffy 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a P.O.S of a husband who has landed himself in prison (has been there since Aug 06 until Aug 08) and i tried to work things out but i just can't do it anymore, i have finally got the courage to leave a mentally and phyically abusive relationship... i have two kids with him, one being almost 6 and the other almost 1 1/2, i am a single mom trying to just make ends meet right now, so the cheapest way to get a divorce would be to do it myself, because the cheepest lawyer around here is $900 (uncontested divorce of course) plus the filling fees for our county is $260 which is a GREAT price and if i could afford it i would do it but i can't afford it... so my question is do you think it would be wise to do it myself?? has anyone else filled for divorce themselves??

2007-09-12 08:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Even though you still love them, but this relationship is going nowhere? and its just causing your heartaches?

2007-09-12 08:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Mozzy 2 in Singles & Dating

what is wrong with women?one minute they are nice & very happy.the next they are biting your head off.

2007-09-12 08:10:23 · 39 answers · asked by i love anne 5 in Singles & Dating

you found out that a friend of you and your husbands (which you met through your husband while you were dating him) has had a huge crush on him and has always had a crush on him and you just found out yesterday after 4 years of being together

this "friend" of ours has been to dinner parties with us and all kinds of differernt gatherings...i had no clue!!!!
i am confused about my feelings right now--how would you feel?

2007-09-12 08:07:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a sudden ..he starts asking you very personal questions...ex...such as "How much money do you make?"....and you say.."I'd rather keep it private"...and then he asks..other personal stuff that you would RATHER NOT ANSWER!!!...do most men feel they have a RIGHT TO ASK YOU STUFF LIKE THAT???...(first of all, you do NOT KNOW WHETHER HE WILL SPREAD IT AROUND)...ALSO He asked ..."How much are your house payments?"...i just said..."enough for me to afford"...and he said oh really...he asks again.."really, how much are they?"...and you say again..."Enough for me to afford"...what is he trying to do???? I do not like to answer very personal questions....Is he sizing me up, like to move in??? or what???..because if he is doing that...I will just say..."i feel we are going in different directions so i have to move on"...i do not want to be USED!!!

2007-09-12 08:07:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

hey so i go to school...and my history (male) teacher is always staring at my boobs i no it sounds stupid but he is hhe always asks me to stay after class with him and he sometimes rubs my arm and tells me i'm doing great,is this normal?

2007-09-12 08:05:12 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known women who've married guys they don't really care about just so that they could have a baby and a big house. I know there's pressure on women to get married, but, I mean, isn't there pressure on men too. Why aren't men so desperate? Why do successful, attractive, independant women still find it so necessary to find a husband

2007-09-12 08:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by Cybele 1 in Marriage & Divorce

women allowed to have many husbands to?

they all sleep in the same bed, and have 7 children between them,all 3 have been married 21 years

2007-09-12 07:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6 in Marriage & Divorce

first of all this girl means the world 2 me and i love her loads! but theres one thing ok so i've been chating to this boy since mayish now?? and theres been flirting!? but now my mate added him on msn and they've been *getting along* alot i feel we(as in me and the boy) have something special and this is goin 2 sound so selfish but shes jst came in and i feel shes going to rin it she left him a bebo comment saying hey hows you? write back xxx oh here have my love :P :(:( im so upset what can i do :( hes the one boy i've liked

2007-09-12 07:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how and why should we value being part of a family?

2007-09-12 07:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends