first of all this girl means the world 2 me and i love her loads! but theres one thing ok so i've been chating to this boy since mayish now?? and theres been flirting!? but now my mate added him on msn and they've been *getting along* alot i feel we(as in me and the boy) have something special and this is goin 2 sound so selfish but shes jst came in and i feel shes going to rin it she left him a bebo comment saying hey hows you? write back xxx oh here have my love :P :(:( im so upset what can i do :( hes the one boy i've liked
2007-09-12 07:57:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her why is she doing this to you?
2007-09-12 08:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know how you feel about this boy? If not - tell her, if she's atrue friend she'll back off and leave you and this boy to get on with whatever. Remember though, - nothing has happened between you and this boy yet and he is therefore allowed to be friends with whoever he wants. If they get on you can't stop them being friends just because you fancy him. If you like him that much why don't you get messageing, grab the bull by the horns and tell him you like him and ask if he fancies meeting up sometime. If he likes you he'll jump at the chance, if he blows you out then you've loved and lost - move on and put him behind you.
Remember boyfriends come and go but true friends last forever!
2007-09-12 08:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that you've liked this boy since May and he's the fist one you've ever liked, but haven't had the guts to say anything about it. Also tell her that you do feel upset a bit and wish that she could step back a bit to at least let you have a shot at him. Mention the Bebo notes and stuff, too, but be honest and polite about this talk. Since you're best friends, she should understand.
2007-09-12 08:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by x-x-x-eye-♥-♪♫-x-x-x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to you friend, say hey ive been talking to him, and i like him alot, and it kinda bothers me the way you talk to him. If she gets angry then is she really your friend? Friends should understand in a situation like that. But if that boy is talking to her like that also then maybe you should just drop the boy, friendship is more important then a boy!
2007-09-12 08:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Amy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur friend about him, and say that u do like him, and if she carries on she isnt worth it because she nos that you like him, well i think if you do like this guy why not tell him that and see what happens!
2007-09-13 02:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes your best friend you should be able to confront her and ask her whats up!!
2007-09-12 08:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by phyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋