when you've been with the same person for 1 year 1/2, for some reason you think you guys are good then all of the sudden the girl/boy tells you that they lost interest in you.Now you may think that you didnt do anything wrong but how is it that is so?
2007-09-12 08:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Teresa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people loose interest for many reasons maybe they want time alone maybe they rather sombody else so you don't know what goes through their mind when they say and your not neccessarily the problem. Often enough it's them who have the problem and they just can't come to some resolve. Don't worry about it you'll find somebody heaps better.
2007-09-12 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being with one another does not necessarily mean love is prominent in that relationship. Some people are in relationships because they are afraid to be alone, the other person gives them stability, or just that "couple" status.
People do occasionally fall out of love, or find a "new" someone to occupy their fancy.
It is not necessarily about doing something wrong.
2007-09-12 08:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but it happened to my best friend.
You probably didn't do anything wrong - assuming this is you of course - but some men have commitment problems and as soon as they realise it's a long term relationship, they run away. He was probably just scared. If this is the case, then he's a jerk.
Hope this helps hon!
xxx
2007-09-12 08:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reading too much into it. Maybe the truth is that the other person really did lose interest. Believe me, people can get boring if you spend alot of time with them.
2007-09-12 08:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by chuckna21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how much the couple spends time with eachother...if they constantly see eachother a lot then they'll usually one of them well wanna move on...its better for a relationship that the couple sees eachother onlee once in a while...that makes them miss eachother more and makes them want to be together...it's bette than seeing eachother everyday or most of the day...
2007-09-12 08:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a marriage license it is easy to dump the cow when you want a fresh squirt of new milk.
2007-09-12 08:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they just get bored I guess. I think it just have to do with age. Like a teenager would get bored more easily of the relationship.
2007-09-12 08:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by godsynthesis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happens. love does not remain the same. Sometimes one persons feelings does not match the others.
2007-09-12 08:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly its probly someone else, if not - people change and maybe they dont think it will work or they want different things try to move on and don't blame yourself
2007-09-12 08:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋