Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

i m 28yrs old and my beloved is 22 yrs old we are in love from last 4yrs with lots of ups and down in our relation but still im in love with her.Her family reputation is not good so that my mother is not agree with my love she was dead against of it but my beloved also love me too much what i feel she never disagree with me she is very compromising with me she said that after marraige she never have any relation with her family if i or my family do not want.so what can i do whether i go with her or not pls pls pls help i m in great problem one thing more im also too much prestige or reputation cautious what can i do ??????????

2007-09-12 04:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by djgoutam78 1 in Family

Is that so wrong? I am going to be getting a divorce and I am afraid that I will be like this. I have alot of love to give and after living with nothing but grief for 17 years I'm ready for the real thing. How can I keep myself from just settling for someone that pays me a little attention?

2007-09-12 04:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My child is almost 4mth old. I was about to go back to work when he 6wks. He was in ICU after he was born. The doc. recommended for me to wait. Since he is doing much better. The doc. told me he will be fine & I can go back to work. The problem is his father. He not a man of his word. I did my best to work out a schedule with him so we both can take turn to watch the child. When I had feel he didn't want to do this. I told him I will have 1 of my friends to watch him. He told me &my friend will be under the ground. He said this morning at my place. I am thinking about not letting him come over again except to pick/drop the baby off. When he gets off of work he takes the baby to his place. I have to work also to pay my bills also. He isn’t willing to meet me half way. I don't have any family in the area. I feel like I have no other choice but to have a friend watch him. His dad say he don't want nobody to watch him. If I do get someone he might cause harm to me or them.

2007-09-12 04:23:57 · 4 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Friends

I ask a question on here a few minutes ago and got some good answers. One was in reference to my boyfriend who thinks I am nagging all the time and nosy. If I am I don’t mean to be. I care about him. He gets upset when I ask him what’s wrong? If I ask him something about his day, something his friend did or if he tells me something and I don’t understand it I will ask him more questions about it and he says man I shouldn’t have even brought it up. And he tells me I am nosy because I ask too many questions, but I am just an inquisitive person and I require a lot of detail. I have explained this to him before but he doesn’t see it that way. Or if I tell him that he is sweet for things that he does, that gets on his nerves, he says men aren’t sweet. But I think he is sometimes so I tell him. Or if he tells me he is sick, has a toothache or something I am trying to make him feel better, buy him medicine and that bothers him, he says he doesn’t need to be petted.

2007-09-12 04:22:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help!! I met this guy and now we are an item. I trusted him from the begining untill recently. On day her met his son's mother in town and decided to bed her. But i found out that before her could do that. now he wants my forgiveness and to trust him again but im afraid to hurt again. He was always honest with me until that night. Should I leave him or stay?

2007-09-12 04:20:34 · 19 answers · asked by fine 2 in Singles & Dating

because i know i will be get hurt when i continue this love..

2007-09-12 04:20:22 · 7 answers · asked by pepzee123456 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl and dated her for 6 weeks it was different for both of us...we where way into each other..than i wanted to have relationship with her..i told her that i was done if she couldnt commit..it was dumb but it was a mistake..i did this twice..and she got pissed and was over it..ive been chasing her for 7 weeks now...going overboard with emails and text..im embarressed i felt like a creep..i was on the edge of stocker status.i know that just pushes woman away further..i dont do that kinda thing..but all of a sudden she said she wanted to hang out and catch up..we had coffee for 20 mins sunday...and where suppossed to go to lunch today...how should i go about winning her heart back...shes dating sombody else now..but the guy has a myspapce page with 1900 friends who are all whores and hes not ganna treat her right..i just want her to be happy and i know this guys ganna end up hurting her..i know where suppossed to be together..how should i go about getting her back...

2007-09-12 04:18:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy and I'd like to be with a hot girl (who wouldn't) but I'm not that attractive myself (physically) so I know thats not really fair of me. So what do I do? When I see a hot girl I can't help myself. Its like I'll never be satisfied, what do I do?

2007-09-12 04:14:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepmothers dad died yesterday and although me and my stepmum dont see eye to eye, her family have always made me feel welcome ever since I met them 20 years ago. i am going round to see my dad and stepmum later and I'm not sure if I should take flowers or what....and what do I say to her?? After all, she has lost her father. And although we are not friends, I feel I have to be there for her as she is still family, as I am also there for my dad.

2007-09-12 04:13:19 · 9 answers · asked by bearsbums 1 in Family

ok whole story short my husband was away from me for 4 months. one month before i move with him he opens a myspace account.he doesn't tell me. but he had an email account which he thought i was never going to find out but i did and he had myspace friends requests in there. so i ask him gimmi ur password to myspace. he flat out denies opening it. like it openend by itself. so i get his password sent to his email. and on his profile he was 18 m single doesn;t want kids. i was pissed but there was nothing else on there in sent folders or trash or inbox except one email written to him after 5 days opening the account. it wasn't spam because i seen other spam emails.i am not over it because he denied it. he said he wanted to see if i had one. he said this after a month of me bragging. what the hell do uthink is going on. i am done talking. no trust why hide stuff. ok the email that he got goes sumting liek this. do u think he contacted this person. more details

2007-09-12 04:12:59 · 12 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Today my friend gave me some money for something to do for her and I kept it in my purse. When I came home from school, it was still in my purse. I meant to do that thing after some time. I was just resting, and my brother came into the room. He thought I wasn't looking so he quickly nipped the money out of my purse. I confronted him, but he denied it. Now what should I do? How can I save face from my friend and get the money back from my brother?

2007-09-12 04:10:36 · 21 answers · asked by random girl 2 in Family

2007-09-12 04:08:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 04:07:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went out with this guy for a short period but during that time he was talking about how he wanted to be a father and asked me to have his baby. i was like what??? you dont even have a real job and i barely know you. but its like he had an obsession wanting me to get preggers. i dumped the loser but i don't get it. it's mostly girls that wanna have a baby so young, i never heard of a guy wanting it. what was his problem?

2007-09-12 04:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so happy with my boyfriend. We've been together almost 5 months and I've never been happier. Problem is I'm afraid he's not going to hang around and I don't want to get hurt. My ex - hub is causing problems between us, (threatening him, harrassing calls and texts, putting stuff in my kids heads). My boyfriend has never been married and has no kids, so all this is new to him. He'll make comments like "he's sick, I don't want anyone to get hurt, "what's he capable of", etc. I don't want to put him through this but my ex will always be in my life. This is the only problem in our relationship. I don't want him to get tired 6 mos down the road and walk away, so I'm thinking of breaking it off w/him.....I know this doesn't make any sense but I want to protect myself from any future pain...help! I'm confused!!!

2007-09-12 04:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, So theres this girl I know & told her that I like her & lately shes been emailing me, talking 2 me more often...Even if shes tired, shes still willing to talk, she'll ask me how my day is, she says she misses me from to time. Anyhow, for some reason if i compliment her in a small manner she thinks I'm lying or she thinks that shes not pretty enough. Now, lately for some reason shes been getting moody with me, pretending to hate my guts & I didn't do anything! so heres my question. Is she in denial about liking me? Whats her problem? & does it seem like she has low self esteem?

2007-09-12 04:01:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 03:59:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy, during my freshman year at high school, in a psychology class. He was a junior at the time, and I really liked him! But he was pretty quiet, not shy, but quiet. Before school got out, I asked for his e-mail adress so we could keep in touch. So basically, we've been e-mailing back and forth ALL summer long, and we've had a lot of heart to heart talks. Okay. So now back in school, I'm a sophomore and he is a senior, and everytime we pass in the halls, we stop and talk to each other. But here's the thing: I never know what to say! He's extremely liberal, and he HATES conformists, so I always worry about saying the wrong thing to him. Between classes there's not much time to get into a long conversation, but what can I talk about with him for a few minutes that will leave a lasting impression on him? It's easy to talk to him through e-mail, but in person, I clam up when I'm around him! I could really use the help! Thanks a lot!

2007-09-12 03:57:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when they see you to be happening to hang out with one of your best girlfriends?do they get jelouse about that matter?

2007-09-12 03:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

honestly i am a mother of 4, but all my life ,my so called husband has never been around seeing the kids growing talkless of shouldering his responsibilities as a man . whenever need arises , if i called him for assistance is either he complains about the children school fees is too much or he is saving for their future. do you think the kids might need his savings later or is there something wrong with him. Rightnow i am fed up and i needed somebody but before doing this i need answers from you .Actually i am 41year old mother

2007-09-12 03:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by cheryl k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I finally went to meet my boyfriends parents and family for the first time. I am a single mother of two. I am hispanic and my two children are bi-racial (hisp. and black), the man I love, my boyfriend is white. At the dinner table there were comments about Mexicans/Hispanics and Blacks. I could not take it anymore I just had to excuse myself and leave the table---I was so upset I wanted to cry. When people talk about black people, I get offended of course; my kids are half black. My boyfriend was so pist at them and yes he did stand up for me. But how do I make him understand and his family that that is so offensive. One relative came and apologized to me and said I should of known she wasn't referring to me because I wasn't like that and that I had class.Andshe's not prejudice, shedoesn't own anyslaves and neither did her parents. And why is it so sensative, that black people say white this and white that all the time.Thenshe said I don't understand how blacks can havthereowntvchannel

2007-09-12 03:54:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My daughters mother lives out of state. She wants my daughter to come and visit her. Which I have to let her visit (court order)but she has been seeing someone and want even tell me this guys last name. She claims he does not live there but all of her family says that he does. It worries me because half of her family dosen't know anything about this guy either and plus they met in rehab!! I have checked sexual predators in her area and none of them are registered at her address and there is none that have his first name. But she could be lying about that also (and no I don't care that she is seeing someone...I have been happily married for 5 yrs now) I really can't afford to take it back to court right now so I'm just trying to figure out whats going on. Is there someway I can find out who recieves mail at that address? She rents the home so the reverse address search came up with who rents it out to her. I would like to at least know this guys last name before I send my baby there!

2007-09-12 03:53:19 · 5 answers · asked by ryeeeeit 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 03:53:00 · 17 answers · asked by am1mysterious ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would any 15 or 16 or 17 year old girl want to become pregnant? They must have a screw loose somewhere. Any comments?

2007-09-12 03:52:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly i am a mother of 4, but all my life ,my so called husband has never been around seeing the kids growing talking of shouldering his responsibilities as a man . whenever need arises , if i called him for assistance is either he complains about the children school fees is too much or he is saving for their future. do you think the kids might need his savings later or is there something wrong with him. Rightnow i am fed up and i needed somebody but before doing this i need answers from you .Actually i am 41year old mother

2007-09-12 03:51:40 · 10 answers · asked by cheryl k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've gone through many bad relationships, my trust level is not quite where it used to be. And I have been moving on and I have been happy. Only I find that when I meet guys, even ones perfect for me, I run. Only I did meet one guy, amazing, and I'm not running. Good for me right? No, he is backing away now. I understand this isn't healthy, and I'm not asking what I can do for him to be intrested in me, if its not there for him its not there for him. I'm actually asking what I can do to stop thinking about him, I can't stop. Anything that has worked for anyone... this is hard from me, coming from a women who knows how to run... so please keep answers serious and helpful, thank you.

2007-09-12 03:49:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-12 03:48:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 03:47:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a great boyfriend, who I love very much. We have been dating for only a few months now and I found some disturbing text messg and e-mails from his exes. not on his part but from them. He dated his ex for 5 years and says they are really good friends but he told me they just talk about her medical school, but I found out that not the case. She will send him messages everyday talking about whatever and even saying she misses him. He said he doesn't love her or he didnt love her and thats why she broke up with him-because he wouldn't propose. But he told me that if it bothered me that much he wouldn't talk to them amymore. So last week he told me he told her something (he didn't go into detail) but that he wouldn't respond to her anymore. I asked him if mentioned me and he said no. I almost started to cry-I was so hurt. I asked why and he said he didn't want to hurt her. And why should he have to tell her about me, that why can't he just quit talking to her.

2007-09-12 03:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-12 03:45:29 · 19 answers · asked by gazelem1 1 in Marriage & Divorce