Today my friend gave me some money for something to do for her and I kept it in my purse. When I came home from school, it was still in my purse. I meant to do that thing after some time. I was just resting, and my brother came into the room. He thought I wasn't looking so he quickly nipped the money out of my purse. I confronted him, but he denied it. Now what should I do? How can I save face from my friend and get the money back from my brother?
2007-09-12 04:10:36 · 21 answers · asked by random girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In order to save face face with your friend, you are going to have to be honest. Tell her what happened...If you do not want to do that then go to your parents and tell them.
Since your Brother is being a creep, maybe the parents can get him to give back the money (if he still has it).
The friend gave you the money to get her "something"...she wants either the "something" or her money back.
The parents need to be involved...Had your Brother not been involved at all, and say you lost the money, you are still responsible...thank you and good luck.
2007-09-19 22:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This might be a good situation to tell the parents. Or just steal it back from your brother. I usually don't advocate violence, but I might threaten it if someone took my money. In the meantime, pay for what your friend needs from your money. Work on getting the money back from your brother.
2007-09-12 11:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to save face with your friend is for you to put up the money to take care of whatever it was you were to do for your friend. However you go about getting the money from your brother is entirely up to you.
2007-09-19 14:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should immediately tell your parents about your obligation to your friend and what your brother did. Then tell your friend that you didn't do what was asked of you. You can either give that person the money back or get what you promised to purchase for them. What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-09-17 16:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, get the money back from your brother. Talk to your mom/dad about it and get the money back. Tell your friend what happened with your brother and once he gives the money back you will be happy to do the favor.
2007-09-12 11:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet and tell your parents, they will help you in returning the money back to your friend. After all brothers are brother, never mind.
2007-09-12 11:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First tell ur bro the truth if he doesnt return it tell ur ma and pa abt it so he returns it if that even doesnt work then take something from ur brothers belongings thats precious and tell him he will only get it back if he returns the money to u if not u will sell what u took and take the money that way, it's his choice, use leverage, good luck...
2007-09-12 11:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So that you do not loose your friend, and you are getting no where with your brother, go to your parents and explain the situation to them. They will help you not only with your friend but with your brother.
2007-09-20 06:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah thats a tough one. If your brother is hard to deal with then swipe it back from him if you can, then do the thing you got the money to do, all is well. Something tells me its not that easy though huh? lol. Good luck though
2007-09-12 11:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Billy C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you must give back your money kindly and tell to your brother kindly that ,that money isn't your self and if he didn't give back dint hit him and pay your friend money of your pocket money.after this he never steal your money because you for gave him.
2007-09-12 11:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by E_M_A_J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋