Please help!! I met this guy and now we are an item. I trusted him from the begining untill recently. On day her met his son's mother in town and decided to bed her. But i found out that before her could do that. now he wants my forgiveness and to trust him again but im afraid to hurt again. He was always honest with me until that night. Should I leave him or stay?
2007-09-12 04:20:34 · 19 answers · asked by fine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheaters don't change their ways.
2007-09-12 04:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is even considering cheating on you and sleeping with his son's mother, he obviously doesn't care about you and your feelings. If you hadn't found out about it, he would have cheated on you. How do you know he hasn't cheated on you before or won't cheat on you later on.
I don't think you can trust him and if there is no trust, the relationship is doomed. You should dump him or you will get hurt. You should find someone better who is loyal and really cares about you.
Good luck!
2007-09-12 04:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be so sure that he won't do it again?
will he be honest on it?
you have to talk one-on-one with him and express/tell him honestly what you don't want to happen again.
men can be pigs and liars... sorry to say this but I'm just a man who know what my fellows do.
If you really love him so much, then you can forgive him but be very careful and be ready that if he commits the same stuff again then dump him. One ultimatum is ok. Two is too much. good luck.
2007-09-12 04:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rio Negro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1, he lied about his child's mother, that is quite hard to get over, and if he is lying now, then he may be lying some more in the future, just be careful!! Don't hurt your own feelings sweetheart!
2007-09-12 04:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you whether you can trust him again. Thats up to you. Personally I could never trust someone who had such a little respect for me that they cheated, or got caught planning to cheat.
2007-09-12 04:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him the hell alone, drop him where you picked him up from......we all mess up but if he do it once then there is a big chance that he will do it again because that's his son's mother
2007-09-12 04:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'd rephrase it'd be easier to answer your question..... can't quite get it. Are you saying he wanted to sleep with his ex but didn't get to? How do you know? Maybe he did and he jus denies it, as men usually do.... will you be able to be with someone you don't trust? If so, stay........ if not, dump him.
2007-09-12 04:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you he would not have cheated on you. he wouldnt have wanted anything to do with him. but since he did what he did he is not worthy of you and you deserve someone a whole lot better.
once a cheater always a cheater
2007-09-12 04:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got unresolved issues with his ex. RED FLAG! Get out now and save yourself future pain and anguish.
2007-09-12 04:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by hellvet2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS FAR AS YOU KNOW he was honest with you until that night. Don't even consider taking him back or dealing with that BS. Move on - and do it quickly!
2007-09-12 04:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by wh_johnny_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him hes not worth the time.
2007-09-12 04:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by My life is now complete PWK&RJC! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋