i went out with this guy for a short period but during that time he was talking about how he wanted to be a father and asked me to have his baby. i was like what??? you dont even have a real job and i barely know you. but its like he had an obsession wanting me to get preggers. i dumped the loser but i don't get it. it's mostly girls that wanna have a baby so young, i never heard of a guy wanting it. what was his problem?
2007-09-12 04:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm glad you dropped that zero.
Only losers want to get girls pregnant without the benefit of marriage.
They want to get a girl pregnant so that she could be tied down and have to defer her dreams.
Some guys get girls pregnant as a way of controlling her. Once she's pregnant, he then tries to tell her what she can and cannot do. Because after all, she's carrying his baby.
Finally, guys get girls pregnant because he's a loser and he wants her down in the dumps right beside him.
2007-09-19 07:52:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most guys want just the opposite -- to not get a woman pregnant. He has had a bad relationship with his parents and wants to make up for some void he has in his life. Also, he is insecure and wants to make certain that he has someone who loves him -- meaning both you and the baby. His thoughts are the thoughts of a child because he does not have the means to support a child; he is simply acting out of ignorance and fantasy. You were right to dump this pathetic loser.
2007-09-12 11:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think it's just that one guy you went out with who wanted to get you preggers- I don't know any other guys who would think like this! Make sure you don't just other guys by the psycho's standards! ;-P
2007-09-12 11:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Yoghurt Top 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to look to his past and family to really to know. Since he doesnt have a real job he could be wanting to be a stay at home dad and you be the care taker.
2007-09-12 11:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did want to have a child. Move on and don't let it bother you.
"Preggers" is such a funny word.
2007-09-12 11:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by aliengirl83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He had no problem. All he wanted was a baby. Some people want babies early in life while some prefer them later in life..
2007-09-12 11:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normal, sane guys don't want to get their casual girlfriends pregnant! There is something wrong in your man's head.
2007-09-12 11:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by LOL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants kids he will move in with you get child support and welfare drink beer all day fart and complain what do you want a hero
2007-09-12 11:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me, after married is the best time to have baby.
2007-09-20 10:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by LadyAnis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy didnt think at al!!!. Good thing you dumped him. He must've thought it was cute. wahahahaha...
2007-09-12 11:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by pitch black 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋