Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

What would you do if your husband confessed that he helped a female co-worker get a car because she had problems (credit, financial etc.). If your husband was supportive, loving and took care of you and the household would you divorce him if he had done this with this female co-worker? He did not pull monies from the account you all have but from his checking account.

2007-09-12 06:04:43 · 43 answers · asked by stergre1975 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a man goes to his bos and asks him " boss, how do i make my wife listen to me? " the boss replied " well son, who wears the pants in the house?" "i do" he said " well then, tose them at her and see if they fit her " the man went home and he saw his wife in the kitchen, he did what his boss told him to do and she just stared confused " why the hell are u throwing ur pants at me?!" "well want to see if they fit" she put them on " theyre too big" " thats right, so that means i wear the pants in the house and u have to obey me in everything!" well the wife got so freaking mad she threw her panties at him and told him to try them on............ he did " i cant get into them" " thats right and intill u gat ur act together wont wont be getting tino them for a lons *** while!!!!"

2007-09-12 06:02:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should i let her wear my new jacket? im guna feel reeeeli bad if i dont but then again she ALWAYS wears all my clothes, even be4 ive even wore dem? please help im confused?

2007-09-12 06:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by tirisha t 1 in Friends

I'm an only child and my parents are so strict. My father's Japanese and my mom's a Filipino. I'm 21 years old, and they don't allow me to go out late at night, drink (not that I want to anyway), or even date and have a boyfriend. I want to be able to travel around without having to ask permission from them, but the thing is, they just don't understand. Our age gaps are also huge. My dad's 73 and my mom's 60. My mother keeps telling me that I'll gain full independence when I'm 28, and that's also the age where I can pick whomever I choose to marry. Sometimes it's getting out of hand, and right now I have a boyfriend who I keep from my parents, because they would never understand.

2007-09-12 06:01:06 · 26 answers · asked by Yuki 2 in Family

there is someone else that i care alot about, and every time i am around him or just talk to him it makes me fell happy. when i am around my husband i am depressed and not happy. what should i do. my husband says he loves me and he is relly trying. he has started doing things in the house and treating me really well, it is like he is trying too hard. if he had always acted this way maybe i wouldn't be un happy now. i am just scared that this will ony last a month or so just long enough for me to say i am staying. it still doesn't make me happy that he is doing all this, maybe it is just to late. what should i do. this other guy that makes me happy says that he cares for me too, there has nothing sexual happened between us. but we enjoy being around each other. help....

2007-09-12 05:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by stacy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was there anything that you missed that you really couldnt belive you forgot?

2007-09-12 05:46:35 · 16 answers · asked by Miranda 3 in Weddings

2007-09-12 05:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by Idowu O 1 in Family

2007-09-12 05:34:50 · 34 answers · asked by klay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That when they do something and get caught by their girlfriends, the nice chipper conversation is deadly?
lol ok..ok
My bf is nuts I tell ya! I pretty much busted him in something a few days back.. At first he lied about it then he later admitted to it. I exploded like a normal woman. Cussed, screamed, cried, and eventually broke up with him. Then today, he got caught in something else and of course he lied about it. I was actually furious but I remained calm. Now he knew he was caught and I think he expected me to go off like the first time, but instead I became VERY chipper and continued to talk to him. Now there was a little meanness on my part. I said "I guess I'll go look at some p@*n" He immediately got excited. I said no, this is something I can take care of myself. I could hear the disappointment in his voice.
Soooo he knows I am upset. But do you think he knows that it is the fuming..fire breathing..sleep with one eye open anger??

2007-09-12 05:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by Kimbo 2 in Singles & Dating

Or can they they be different?

(Which is more usual?)

2007-09-12 05:33:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok lets say you have a bf who already has a son from a previouse marriage and than you had a son with the same guy ok right i have a question its reagarding christmas a holidays that you buy gifts for would it be fair to spend more money on one son than another the baby will amost be a yr round christmas time and the other son is 7 years older than his baby brother i just want to know if it would be fair to always spend more money on the older son adn not the younger son and if not fair do you think that it is showing favratism toward his older son bc he is his first i dont think that its right to spend different amounts on kids on holidays for one it isnt right and not fair and two you should spend a even amount of money on the kids the same amount like you spen 100.00 than it should be for both what do you all think bc i am caught in a qestion that needs some answering ya know please reply

2007-09-12 05:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What do I do? I was in a almost 3 year relationship and all of a sudden he tells me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore. He said he was very confused and needed time off, but after 2 days of telling me this he broke up with me. I am so miserable cause I love him very much. He said that all the time he was with me that he loved me too, but now he doesn't know. I really thought we were going to get maried. We had the perfect relationship we never argued, we got along great. I just want to get over him cause this situation is causing me so much pain. Now I just want to be happy again. I find myself thinking a lot about him. What's the best way to get over him? How long does it take?

2007-09-12 05:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Winnie284 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wonder because I often hear my female friends say, "Don't do that, it's so gay!", complaining about men wearing pink shirts etc.. Of course, often they're half-joking so it's hard to tell. Um, anyway, I'm only asking because I have a male friend who I suspect might be a little bit gay. Ahem.

2007-09-12 05:29:58 · 12 answers · asked by Wulfstan O Malley 1 in Singles & Dating

i really REALLY want to get married outdoors, and i'm in a fight with my mom over this right now. we're (me and my fiance) thinking may wedding, in a tent, and if possible, ceremony outside. but i cant find a location. we were hoping for something that's kinda woodsy, but possibly has a paved/cement/brick area that we can put the tent over so just in case it does rain, it wont be too muddy in the tent. does anyone know any nice areas to look at? we're hoping for something in Fairfax county, as thats where we live and all of our family has to fly in from out of state so we dont want them driving all over NoVa.

thanks!

2007-09-12 05:24:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my ex fiance are going through a break up right now and some days I wake up knowing I can get through this, then some I wake up really lonely and "yearning" for him.
It's hard being strong for our daughter.
what can I do?

2007-09-12 05:21:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you could build your perfect man (the man you would marry), what characteristics and qualities would he possess? personality traits?....etc...
(not physical)

2nd- if he wasn't the most attractive thing in the book , would you still feel the same? (wanting to spend the rest of your life with him?)

2nd -

2007-09-12 05:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by russiansgirl5 2 in Marriage & Divorce

VERy uncompatible. AND you have a cruch on another guy, and he soooo your type. The guy that you are with does nothing but scream at you and treat you like ****. The child even knows, and hands you tissues when he makes you cry!! What would you do? I will admit that I am scared to leave him!!

2007-09-12 05:13:37 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 05:12:52 · 6 answers · asked by cgmunga 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 05:06:47 · 17 answers · asked by fading 2 in Marriage & Divorce

An Amish family went to the shopping mall for the first time.

It was a wife, husband, and their son.

Well the wife wandered off (like always) to the admiring the never before seen outlets while the guys walked down the opposite corridor doing the same.

The husband and his son walked by an elevator and of course did not know what it was.

All they saw the doors opening and people coming out and others walking in.

They saw a old gray hair lady go in the elevator then the doors closed then when it opened a hot blonde walked out!

They saw it again but this time they saw a old woman go in the elevator and a really good looking hot latina walked right out!

They were amazed and were clueless about what they were looking at!

The son turned to his father and asked, "dad that's amazing, how is that happening? How is that possible?"

The father replied by saying, "I have no idea son, but quick go get your mom!"

2007-09-12 05:04:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 04:58:26 · 13 answers · asked by Tom B 1 in Friends

I have been wth my boyfriend for 5 years now, and we are very happy and scared at the same time. The problem is I live with my parents. We have been planning to get our own place for about a year now and a few months ago bought a peice of land, we have been looking around for a mobile home to put on this land, but really don't have the money for one at this time. Well I am going to college full time, and working 30 hours a week. My parents have made it very clear how mad they would be if I were to get pregnant and I am very scared to tell them. Any advice....

Please note my mother is kinda crazy. awhile back my 24 year old brother got his gf preg and he told my mom, she FREAKED out I mean freaked. He was soon to graduate college at the time, and I just didn't understand why she got so angry. That's why I am even more scared!

Do you think 20 is too young to have a baby? I will be 21 when the baby come in may, 2008

2007-09-12 04:58:06 · 18 answers · asked by bluemoon 3 in Family

my son does be up there alot and this girl does not like me can i stop him moving her in

2007-09-12 04:46:15 · 39 answers · asked by sparks 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been invited to spend the weekend at the beach with his mom, and the majority of his extended family. His Mom, who I get along with well, is the type of person I can only handle in small doses. In addition, his 8 younger cousins will be there, and I am not very good with kids. I am seriously anxious going...I feel like I'm just going to be irritated and on edge the whole time. Is there a tasteful way to get out of this?

2007-09-12 04:43:35 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

being a firefighter, policeman, or being in the military does not make you a hero!!! because what you are doing is your job!!! now if a barber saved someones life that would make him a hero!!!

do you agree? if not tell me why!!!

2007-09-12 04:42:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife and I were married last year, (had our own rental house) and decided a few months later to buy her parents house. We moved in with her parents, and after 5 months of saving money living there, we purchased the house April first. Her parents were building a house about 1/2 mile away. Their house is now completed all but the heating and septic. My wife and I have been paying the mortgage now for 6 months, and they still are living with us. We have lived out of one room in the upstairs, while their (her parents) belonings and things remained in OUR house. It's hard to explain without all of you actually knowing my mother and father in-law. Now we feel like they are dragging there feet, (bigtime) and they haven't even hired anyone to do the remaining work on there house. (getting estimates?) Money isn't an issue for them, at least from what we can tell. Anyone got any advise? They claim it will be the first or second week of October before they can move out. HELP!!!

2007-09-12 04:40:04 · 15 answers · asked by Free Range Chicken 3 in Family

I just had a baby almost six weeks ago and I weigh less than I did now before I got pregant. Well my hubby tells me all the time how good I look, and I feel great. He beams when his friends tell him how good I look and everything...
Yesturday we were getting ready to go out, and I put on a pair of white shorts(the athletic type), and a tank top...and he told me no, your not wearing those shorts go change them. I was like why? He didn't give me a reason. So do you think he's afriad of people looking at me or is he lying about how good he thinks I look and is embarrassed?
He has never once before asked me to change my clothes before going out, so I'm just so confused. Jealous or embarrassed?

2007-09-12 04:38:23 · 25 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 and my boyfriend is 21. He moved with me when I moved to go back to school. So we live together along with my best friend. Him and his ex have a son together. He is about 8 months old and now my bf's ex won't even let him see his son and she doesn't answer the phone when he calls to check on him. He buys everything for his son and tries to be in his life but she just wants him to pay for everything and give her money and never see the baby or have anything to do with him. Now they are going to court and he is going to try to get full custody of him. She is on food stamps, gets WIC, lives with a friend's mom, doesn't work, and has had one child taken away from her by DHR before. Where she is staying there is drug use, drinking, fighting, and it just is not a good environment for their son. My bf has been in trouble with the law before but he hasn't in two years. And he lives with me and my best friend. He does work though. How good of a chance does he have of getting custody?

2007-09-12 04:37:00 · 13 answers · asked by HelpMe 1 in Family

My BF of 16 years had a car for sale she had it at my house for 1 year and it didnt sell. My boyfriend was in need of a car and bought it from them for 1000.00 he paid 400 down and was to pay the rest WHEN HE COULD> Months later each of us knowing eachothers fancial probs. she told her daughter it was my fault she( 6 years old )was not having a party because me and my boyfriend didnt pay for the car! Now the kid hates me and I have not spoke to her in 2 months! What do u think? Remember the car was at my house sitting there 4 sale for over a year!16 years of friendship and alot of bad feelings from both of our kids who also were very close once until she told her it was my fault about her b-day!HELP!

2007-09-12 04:36:16 · 1 answers · asked by just me! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met this guy when I was in wal-mart and we where in the hygenie section and I was getting nair and he was too and he just started a conversation with me and telling me I was very pretty and I asked him why are you getting nair and he said to shave my legs and I was just turned off by him then...although I have a fiancee I wasn't going to exchange numbers or anything but he was just too cute and too clean, he didn't sound gay and he has two ear rings.....that makes me wonder?????

2007-09-12 04:33:04 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating