What do I do? I was in a almost 3 year relationship and all of a sudden he tells me that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore. He said he was very confused and needed time off, but after 2 days of telling me this he broke up with me. I am so miserable cause I love him very much. He said that all the time he was with me that he loved me too, but now he doesn't know. I really thought we were going to get maried. We had the perfect relationship we never argued, we got along great. I just want to get over him cause this situation is causing me so much pain. Now I just want to be happy again. I find myself thinking a lot about him. What's the best way to get over him? How long does it take?
2007-09-12 05:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by Winnie284 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
While there is no easy answer to this question, the only true advice is let time do its deed and it will eventually heal and feel much bettter. I am dealing with the same situation now, except my on and off relationship was for 9 years and he was also my best friend. He fell out of love with me and is now dating someone else. Although it feels like its the end of the world, eventually the feeling will get less and less painful. There is not set time for this healing process but the busier you are the easier it will seem. Take time to evaluate yourself, do things that make you happy and you will look back at this in retrospective and laugh.....
Best of luck to the BOTH of us!
2007-09-12 05:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by alina v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember al the good times together. Cry as much as you want. Feel all the love you have for him. Look back on your life together, but don't blame yourself or wallow if i did this or that, will he still be with me?
After that, resolve to put it all behind you. Love will still be there but knowing that you did your best and it just didn't work out will make you stronger. Move on, take a hobby, don't rush to another relationship, rather meet people and learn to live life without him.
2007-09-12 05:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by etang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, only time can mend a broken heart! I had the exact same thing happen to me, only I was 9 month pregnant and due any day when he left me. It took me 7 years to forgive him and until I forgave him, I did not start to get over him. Sorry, there is no easy way. Good Luck my heart goes out to you!
2007-09-12 05:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by pony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with a lot of other hot guys.
it does help you get over that "someone"
Even if you don't like the guys, i know it
sounds really stupid, but its helped with
my situation. so i hope it works with you
try to not see him anymore. don't interact with him
don't speak, message, or call this person. try
to just not see them.
it might help, it will be painful for a long time.
maybe a few months, but eventually you will begin
to feel less for this person.
you will never be completely over him, its not really possible.
but you will find your self not thinking about him all the time.
i wish you well, i hope you start to feel better, i really do.
2007-09-12 05:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say keep your mind busy, everytime you think about him go do something to keep your mind off him, read a book, play a game, go shopping, go out to eat with a friend that's what i did.
It took me between 2-5 months because my ex attempted suicide i was like hwo can i even love him for doing that?
2007-09-12 05:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be happy again, forget him
2007-09-12 05:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋