If you could build your perfect man (the man you would marry), what characteristics and qualities would he possess? personality traits?....etc...
(not physical)
2nd- if he wasn't the most attractive thing in the book , would you still feel the same? (wanting to spend the rest of your life with him?)
2nd -
2007-09-12 05:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by russiansgirl5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My perfect man is the one who I'm married too....Someone who completes ME and who makes me very happy....
2007-09-12 05:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks fade ... but character and personality only get better with time. If I could build my perfect man, he would be just like my husband, except he would be home more often. *he is in the military and gone way too often*. He is kind, caring and considerate. He is soft and tender but one of the manliest men I have ever met. He tucks his children in at night with gentle hands but stands tall and proud in his uniform to defend our freedom with gun in hand. When I am with him, I feel safe from the world. When he is away, I know I am safe because he is on the front line. And looks wouldn't matter all that much. I have always believed that appearances may be what draws you in, but character is what hooks you. My husband is an average looking man, but to me he is a handsome prince.
2007-09-12 12:27:46 · answer #2 · answered by squidsgirl97 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm happy with my man...so no need to "build the perfect man". My boyfriend is smart, witty, funny, thoughtful, attentive, passionate (about lots of things: life, love, food, music, our puppy, the future). He has a grip on reality and has learned from his past experiences. He knows himself and is interested in me and how I feel, what I think, what I want. He's not a doormat and he holds firm to what he believes. He is compromising but can be a little stubborn (like me). He is very generous and giving and I guess I could go on and on here...but you get my point ?
He's perfect for me. :)
2007-09-12 12:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by BRAT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The perfect man to me is NOT flawless. He's not the greatest looking stud in the world. He has fears, dreams, goals, and a heart just like me. He knows when to argue and when to listen to me rant. He doesn't try to make me feel wrong because I have thoughts or hurt feelings. He's there with his shoulders when I just need to cry and hug someone. He tells me it's all going to be okay when I have no hope left. He's strong for me when I can't be strong enough to support my own weight. This man IS my husband, and I love him because he's human, and he has faults just like me. He's not the most beautiful man in the world, and by no means perfect to everyone else, but he's beautiful and perfect to ME.
2007-09-12 12:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shauna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should have
a witty sense of humor, capable of understanding sarcasm
intelligent but humble
kind
giving
well endowed, good in bed also is a plus
good credit
a better car than I have
minimal family influence is a big plus
doessn't gamble or watch porn
lets me clean and do the housework
likes good food/fine dining
knows how to have fun
not a pretty boy
rough around the edges, manly
2007-09-12 12:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by contessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am NOT perfect...so why should he be?
My husband is the man for me, and like me, he is flawed.
He isn't the best looking guy, nor is he the muscle bound hunk..but what he is...HIMSELF.....Is just right for me.
Honest, charming, sensitive, sexy and flirty...Oh God does he have hair every where! He is bashful sometimes and at other times he is highly motivated and works very hard to show me something interesting.
To me, he is the most handsome man on earth...Sorry Brad..
But I know that others do not think so...but who cares what they think!
So, no one is perfect...not even me
But again I say
That is how God...intended for us to be.
Blessings
2007-09-12 12:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the elevator story? Each floor had men of varying degrees of perfection; the top floor was for the perfect man, but the door opened on an empty room!!!!
2007-09-12 12:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My perfect man would be kind and considerate...a man of character that I could laugh with and share my deepest thoughts and feelings.
As for not being that attractive on the outside, he would be the hottest man to me if he was all those things.
2007-09-12 12:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My perfect man would possess many of the qualities of some of the men I've dated. Respectful, a sense of humor. kind, tender, compassionate, passionate.
2007-09-12 13:04:25 · answer #9 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I have found my perfect man. He is EVERYTHING i wanted in a man.
He is very sweet, honest, loving, caring, funny, outgoing, very family oriented, faithful, would give you the shirt off his back, knows how to take care of his family, loves to cook, loves children, spends a great deal helping me take care of our daughter and our house hold chores, treats woman right, has a great job, great morals and the list goes on:)
2nd, my husband is very sexy and i wouldn't change a single thing about him. He has that bad guy look. Tall, dark and handsom. He has brown skin, black hair, baby blue eyes, wears alot of black, clean cut and knows how to take care of himself. BOOOY is he sexy:)
2007-09-12 12:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋