That when they do something and get caught by their girlfriends, the nice chipper conversation is deadly?
lol ok..ok
My bf is nuts I tell ya! I pretty much busted him in something a few days back.. At first he lied about it then he later admitted to it. I exploded like a normal woman. Cussed, screamed, cried, and eventually broke up with him. Then today, he got caught in something else and of course he lied about it. I was actually furious but I remained calm. Now he knew he was caught and I think he expected me to go off like the first time, but instead I became VERY chipper and continued to talk to him. Now there was a little meanness on my part. I said "I guess I'll go look at some p@*n" He immediately got excited. I said no, this is something I can take care of myself. I could hear the disappointment in his voice.
Soooo he knows I am upset. But do you think he knows that it is the fuming..fire breathing..sleep with one eye open anger??
2007-09-12 05:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by Kimbo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry it is a long distance relationship so he is safe! lol
2007-09-12 05:34:53 · update #1
Hmmm I wonder if JW is my bf? Why is he so angry about this question?? lol First off he didnt cheat. He just keeps getting caught up in a web of lies that he keeps spinning. I have begun the who cares attitude with him because at this point, I dont really think I care anymore. In one way JW is correct. I can only think, what is he doing? But there has never been any games on my part. I have always been upfront and faithful to him.
He just called and the first thing he asked was "Do you just hate me now?" I said "No" He says "Do you just not like me then?" I say "No, I dont not like you" Still in my chipper voice. Soo yes I think he knows I am very angry about the entire situation and he is doing the "puppy dog teary eyed voice." Like I said, I am at the point where I really dont care anymore and I am going to "Play the game like I am a free agent."
2007-09-12 09:53:21 · update #2
LMAO, okay you definitly approached this one like a mad woman, but I'm pretty positive he understands how P-oed you are and I'd say a little afraid maybe? I think it's say to say you scared the BeJESUS out of him, and he's trying his best to play it safe and cool and NOT disappoint you again. But again, MAJOR PROPS on your being very chipper. That's hard for any woman to do, but it always gets a better response and actually leaves you feeling better than down in the dumps. Geez, we women are so mean, yet SO subtle about it lol.
2007-09-12 06:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shauna 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You broke up with him for cheating on you, I believe. Why would you bother getting back together with him? Once a cheater, always a cheater!!
Also, he lied about what he did and then admitted it after you blew his cover. He repeated the same thing again. Do you see the pattern here? It will never end. You are wasting your time and anger on a guy who is not worth it.
Take care,
Troy
2007-09-12 05:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing something stupid and you are in a long distance relationship wow.. Do you really trust him? Trust is most important in a long distance relationship.. I would recommend just staying away from him and giving him the cold shoulder for a while to see if he learns his lesson. It will probably not work because it is hard for men that lie to learn their lesson easily. But good luck in whatever you decide.
2007-09-12 05:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by ldyjsmyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you broke up with him in the beginning of your "plotless story". playing games is very immature but obvisouly you are not above that. I feel bad for you. when I get caught in"something" by someone miles and miles away it wouldn't bother me. you can never know what he is thinking, ever. you can only speculate, guess, or presume to know. you keep testing him like this and he'll move on, but maybe thats what you really want. cussing at him, calling him nuts, lying to him, teasing him in a non playful, you must really really really like him!
2007-09-12 06:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by J W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless he is a total moronat to he knows. He just doesnt know what to do about it.
2007-09-12 05:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by bowlzey01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes but it seems as they want it to be to late to redeem they selves you actually have to move on in his face show him if he cant get it right another man will
2007-09-12 05:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt it....but men really do need to know that information....honestly when i am angry and i am still being nice...it's because i am up to something.....pay backs are a *****
2007-09-12 05:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps
2007-09-12 05:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋