2007-09-12 05:34:50 · 34 answers · asked by klay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
13+ years and it's great & still improving. :-)
We also have three kids, ages 8 and younger, and the idea that there is "no time for sex" is ridiculous. You make time for sex, honey.
2007-09-12 05:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by sparki777 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Oh sure! I think it has gotten better as we know eachothers body's more and what it takes to bring out the animal in one another. We have kids and it doesn't seem to affect us that much. They have a set bedtime and so we just make the time. Sometimes, if we are tired from a long day, we will take a shower in the morning together before I wake the kids up. This is nice and a change from normal.
It is funny to think about how great the sex is now as my husband and I look nothing like what we did 8 years ago! We have both put some pounds on but I am not lying when I say he is just as hot now as he was then!
There is one thing that I do regulary which I think keeps the passion going----I continually take care of small things like SHaving my Legs and bikini area. It sounds silly, but I know my husband appreciates that I do those things for him.
2007-09-12 05:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm I think that it depends on the married couple. Some might say no, but in my case hell yea.
We have been married 12yrs and since I got my tubal ligation our sex life has gone through the roof. I think since we both don't have to worry about me getting pregnant we enjoy it more often. We have 3 kids and I think that even a quick can fit in your schedule. There is always time for sex. We both work and we don't use that as an excuse.
Make sure you keep it spicy. Play games. Don't feel like you have to do it. Enjoy it to the fullest.
2007-09-12 05:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been married almost 11 years and we have 3 kids. The sex does get better once you get to know each others bodies and responses. BUT the only complaint I would have is the frequency. I want it all the time and my wife doesn't! BUT when we do have sex it is awesome and it definitely has improved every year!
2007-09-12 06:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 years here. The kids are all out of the house on their own. Its like when we were first married all over again. Only better because we know each other so well.
2007-09-12 05:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dusie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sure they do. I have only been married two, but I have a great sex life and plan to keep it that way.
2007-09-12 05:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been married for 15 years here and must say ... it is better today than it was 15 years ago!! We are more comfortable with each other and our own selves. There is no longer the need to impress .... Sex is so much better when you aren't worried about the trivial things!!
2007-09-12 05:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by squidsgirl97 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The first 6-7 years were the best! Then the BABIES came. We were still active when she died after 19 years of marriage. Have a great day! ;-)=
2007-09-12 05:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been married 7 years, 3 kids, no time for sex.
2007-09-12 05:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by nonails 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it definitely can be great. never believe that kids HAVE to kill the sex drive. we have 13 yrs and 6 kids and we still have great sex. in fact.....we are going thru a very rough time right now and may separate.....sex is still good. we never lose that for each other. or maybe we're both just really horny.
2007-09-12 07:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by SpeedyGonz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it comes and goes in waves. if you're irrtaed with the person, then you want them to stay away, but after a long drawn out fight where you both get hurt, you can't keep your hands off each other...any relationship isn't easy, add a kid or two and it becomes even more stressful. the key is do you love eachother and do you want to work it out. if you "talk" and do all the "work" that goes along with the relationship, the sexlife will be fine.
2007-09-12 05:39:14 · answer #11 · answered by deidre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋