Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

At my school we have a miss all that competiton where the competitors walk around with milk jugs to get money and the girl with the most amount wins. I've been wanting to dothis since last year when i first heard about it but when i told my friend i wanted to she didnt have the reaction i was looking for. neither did 2 of my other friends. They dont think i will win and shouldnt sign up for it. Im not a geek or a dork and i know alot of people and kinda outgoing. i wanted to do this since last year and i dont wanna wati until next year to do this. What should i do?

2007-09-12 07:53:46 · 4 answers · asked by I<3Apollo Anton Ohno 2 in Friends

i have a place to stay it is with a family friend.
she has a daughter that goes to the school down the street can she sign me in? and i have been living with her for about over a month and on the weekends my mother dumped me off here.
so what rights does she have leagilly to me?

2007-09-12 07:53:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I left my b/f of 7 yrs about a month ago and I have this friend that thinks she's helping us b/c she talks to him and gives him advice then talks to me and gives me advice but then she goes and tells everyone our problems and this girl does alot for us she helps w/ my son and tries to help whenever I need it but I've heard that when we are not around she talks bad about me, my son, and my ex. I'm just really confussed bc my ex said that she just using us. So should I end the friendship b4 it gets any worse?

2007-09-12 07:52:27 · 3 answers · asked by ~LoveSpell~ 3 in Friends

ok so i completely fell for a guy who i was friends with. he acted like he liked me we would make out and we were like best friends with benifits (no sex) anyway he lead me on, and he knew it, and he was with other girls and would tell me about it to make me jelouse. then we started hanging out more and he would come to my work (water park) and i would get him and our friend in so they can be kids lol and i introduced him to a girl i work with because im polite well they started talking and it was like screw me and yeah and i was hurt. mean things were said and we hated eachother. well now he wants to be with me and he repeated everything that hes ever done to me and apologized and i was so inlove with him and idk if i should give him another chance?

2007-09-12 07:49:10 · 15 answers · asked by pheonix 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, I love em, but what do you do when people just expect to stay at your house when they visit? there's another side of the family to stay with, but they say out place is more "comfortable". That's great and all, I don't mind occasionally, but it's not exactly fun all the time : )

2007-09-12 07:47:37 · 28 answers · asked by Roscoe 1 in Family

So.. here's my dillemma..
I'm single now.. have been for two weeks, not ready for another boyfriend but I'm thinking about the future.. I'm a christian and I'm struggling with the fact christians should date christians.. please don't abuse me for that, just respect that's my belief..
But I don't know what to do, because I'm not like other christians. I don't like preachy christians or controlling goody goody one's.
I'm just normal, but believe in God and do my best to do the right thing.
So I don't think I'll be happy with any of the christian guys I've met because they're.. SUPER christian.
What do I do?
I don't want to be alone.
I'm 18, and I would love to be engaged at 21.. I reckon I'm gonna TRY to take at least a year off to just find myself and enjoy being single. But yeah.. so at 19/20 I'm worried about not finding someone.. I don't live in the city either.. towns population is about 15000.

2007-09-12 07:44:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Having a Bachelor and Bachelorette party before you both get married? Is'nt this considered a test?

2007-09-12 07:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Simple Life 2 in Weddings

You are financially ok and lets say not hurting, but not rich. Your Nieghbor is poor and barely making it. He asks you to loan him $100.00 to help pay his sons medical bill which you know he can't pay back. Your wife/girlfriend wants to go to the big concert which costs $75.00. She knows about the nieghbors situation but says NO firmly to loaning/giving him the money. What would you do?

2007-09-12 07:42:53 · 28 answers · asked by aswkingfish 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He's a drummer, so i'd like something that says "i'm the snare captain" kinda thing.

2007-09-12 07:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by yvettexas007 1 in Friends

Im so embarassed because Im visiting my sister in Phoenix Arizona she lives with her mother and father in law...And me and her went out to eat and her mother in law watched the kids...I drank some bacardi and got sloppy drunk...Now im so embarassed because I started crying and acting stupid..now my eyes are swollen almost shut...I look like hell..I passed out in my panties on the couch..Give me some encouragment please.....I never want to show my face again...

2007-09-12 07:33:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just want to know if it ever happen that two people meet online and one is from USA and the other is from China. Two of them chat for long time. Send each other gifts in the mail and letters and card. Then meet in person and soon marry and for long time are Happy with each other. I hear this happen and just want to know how true it is. And how miney are happy marry and are not.

2007-09-12 07:26:48 · 9 answers · asked by jccaug 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 07:19:14 · 60 answers · asked by Jess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What attributes a woman has to have to be considered pretty?

2007-09-12 07:17:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a tow truck driver, last night he was driving home from a call on a busy freeway. He witness a 3 car pile up. Two of them were ok and but one lady was messed up. He ran into the freeway and pushed the two cars out of the way. The 3rd lady was unable to be moved, so he set up flares around her. He put the tow truck in front of her so they'd hit the truck and not her. He called 9-1-1 and the whole nine yards. The 3rd lady was so injured she was going in out of consiousness so he did everything he could to keep her awake till they got her out with the jaws out life. The thing that upset me is no one thanked him, besides the ladies of course. The police just told him to go as if he did nothing. He didn't get get thanked for protecting the lady from not getting hit again and keeping her calm. I dunno, Im upset about it. He didn't care but I do. Shouldn't he of at least been thanked or something?

2007-09-12 07:15:15 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

husband wants to move to suburbs of new jersey. i want to stay in manhattan. i hate the 'burbs. we have no kids. only a golden retriever. i would rather live in a box in the city than live in the 'burbs with the soccer moms and bratty teenagers wearing juicy couture and driving beamers. i like not having to drive everywhere and having an easy commute and having diversity and everything the city has to offer. both of us won't budge, is this the end of our relationship? thanks.

2007-09-12 07:08:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to have to worry about anything but I am also not rich and am working with a budget.

2007-09-12 07:00:00 · 4 answers · asked by Christine J 1 in Weddings

I've recently startign chatting to this guy and he flirts with me a lot and says I'm hot and stuff like that but he's got a girlfriend... I can't understand him?

2007-09-12 06:59:14 · 26 answers · asked by Rawwr* 3 in Singles & Dating

On zales.com if you click on wedding you have 3 options. Promise rings, Engagement rings, and Anniversary Rings. The only rings I seem to like are the promise rings. Can you use a promise ring for an engagement ring?

I ask because my boyfriend and I have been looking, and those are the ones I liked. So can a promise ring be used as an engagment ring?

2007-09-12 06:46:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm turning 17 in a couple weeks and im a boy who comes from an indian family. i haven't seen my dad in about 10 years since he abandoned us, but my mom remarried so I have a stepdad. my mom is always like "you have to get a phd or at least a masters degree if you want to get anywhere in life!". and my stepdad isnt any better. since its an indian family, I just HAVE to be a doctor or an engineer or sum fat basterd who stands behind a counter and says thank you come again.

My stepdad doesnt even care for me. he refuses to call me his son because I'm not "his blood". yet when I told him that I wanna study criminal justice and become a state trooper and that I wanna join the marine corps reserves, he went crazy and he's like "OH NO NO NO YOU WONT MAKE ANY MONEY THAT WAY! Y DONT U JUST BECOME AN ENGINEER LIKE ME!?" then he sed "and why on earth do you want to join the marines? if you're going to defend a country, go defend india!"
First, I'm american. second, i dont care about india

2007-09-12 06:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Girls like goats, right? Why don't they like me? I can make bleating noises and headbutt people! How come they get all the action?

2007-09-12 06:40:37 · 7 answers · asked by Creature 2 in Singles & Dating

If a women decides to be a stay-at-home wife, but doesn't cook and clean, is she falling down on her job? My mom did this for a while, (she has a great, high-paying job that allowed her to do this if she wanted, so no, I didn't come from a family with a stay-at-home mom normally) and she said that while she was home, that stuff WAS her job. When she had a job outside the home, THAT was her job, and all the home stuff was divided between her and my father. So what do you guys think? Is it sexist to require a stay-at-home wife to cook and clean, if she decides she'd rather stay home than hold a job? If you do think it is, than what should a stay-at-home wife do?

2007-09-12 06:39:57 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my sister has had 4 kids in 5 yrs. the last was just born in aug. so theres the 1 mon old, the 1 yr old (shell b 2 in oct) the 3 yr old and the 4 yr old (5 in oct). she was married for about 2 yrs now getting a divorce. she has no job. lives off of her child support of about $450/ mo and $600 food stamps/ mo. she lives in a low income housing development and pays rent of $95/ mo. (w/ EVERYTHING included) her kids have little to no structure at all. she cant cook doesnt clean. my mother has to take care of everything for her. she cant even manage to pay her rent and has to barrow money. it has gotten so bad that i have had to move in w/ my mother to hlep her w/ bills and money bc she went so far into debt helping my sister. i work full time and go to school for my RN i am also engaged. my fiance lives in germany so he stays w/ us when he visits (he visits ever 3-12 wks and stays about 3 months) my sister is here constantly. she comes in the morning and stays till 10 or 11 if she goes

2007-09-12 06:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family

My brother wants to have a vampire style wedding. Any suggestions? We both really want to scare the family. payback to them for f##k##g up our lives. LOL

2007-09-12 06:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Weddings

Im 18 and I live in San Diego. Ive always liked older women. But I have never had a girl older then me any tips ?

2007-09-12 06:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 06:12:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since, last week I started having panick attack eposodes. I do not like being alone. I have been on and off from my job. I missed schools two days. I have hard time falling a sleep because i feel like I might not get up. I work at two jobs and go to school part time. I have to the emergency room four times now for my Panick attack. I never used to have it before. this has just started last tuesdays. My mother and sister recommended that i drop school this semester and jobs. what should I do? help me out here with good decision.

2007-09-12 06:11:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Singles & Dating

long black hair, filipina type, cute, simple... charming.....does anyone will likes me?

2007-09-12 06:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by Duckling 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, basically everytime I turn my head in his direction, I see him looking at me. This is in every class, and happens everyday. At first I didn't think much of it, but now I've realised he has started to walk home in the same direction I walk, despite him living further away, eg: There is absolutly no need for him to walk on the same street as me. It is making me really cautious and I'm constantly jumpy incase anything happens. What should I do, I don't think he is a pervert, not exactly the best looking either, thanks for any help you offer. Best answer gets 10 points.

2007-09-12 06:07:49 · 9 answers · asked by SB 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

if u asked him about commitment in the relationship and he says tht he cant think about it now..and he also said about the different culture between u and him...wht is ur opinion about it?

2007-09-12 06:04:55 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 06:04:54 · 39 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating