I left my b/f of 7 yrs about a month ago and I have this friend that thinks she's helping us b/c she talks to him and gives him advice then talks to me and gives me advice but then she goes and tells everyone our problems and this girl does alot for us she helps w/ my son and tries to help whenever I need it but I've heard that when we are not around she talks bad about me, my son, and my ex. I'm just really confussed bc my ex said that she just using us. So should I end the friendship b4 it gets any worse?
2007-09-12 07:52:27 · 3 answers · asked by ~LoveSpell~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would. It sounds like she is using your pain for her gain. When you have friends like that.. who needs enemies! I know you need her to help you with your son..but do you really want someone like that in your life who could easily say mean things in front of your kid about you or your ex?
2007-09-12 08:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really talking about you behind you back, then she isnt really a friend, i would just stop talking to her. But i would find out first if she is really talking bad about you when youre not around.
2007-09-12 08:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Amy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the help she gives isn't worth the trouble she puts on you, you need to drop her. She does these things to feel important, not to help you out.
2007-09-12 08:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋