Ok, basically everytime I turn my head in his direction, I see him looking at me. This is in every class, and happens everyday. At first I didn't think much of it, but now I've realised he has started to walk home in the same direction I walk, despite him living further away, eg: There is absolutly no need for him to walk on the same street as me. It is making me really cautious and I'm constantly jumpy incase anything happens. What should I do, I don't think he is a pervert, not exactly the best looking either, thanks for any help you offer. Best answer gets 10 points.
2007-09-12 06:07:49 · 9 answers · asked by SB 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry about the not right category - Didn't know where this question belonged! Thanks.
2007-09-12 06:08:13 · update #1
The reason he keeps looking at you, and everytime you turn your head he is staring, it's becuase he's wanting you to know that he's interested (for some men, this is as creative as it gets for them).
Now as for walking home, and he's walking in the same direction, that's starting to sound a bit creepy.... however, he could be a man that simply has something he wants to tell you (he wants to approach you) - and he keeps building up for it by staring at you and thinking what he'll say... or walking home in your direction, waiting until he has enough confidence to catch up to you and say what's on his mind.
I wouldn't get cautious at this stage. If I were you.... I would play a little game. Slow down when you're walking, and see if he slows down too. Let him know that YOU know he's following you :-) This should speed him up in approaching you.
If you don't see yourself ever being with him, then I would tell him the next time you feel that he's following you. The reason I say wait until then, is becuase you are not around friends or other peers that would make him feel very uncomfortable.
The last thing a guy wants, is a girl tell him that SHES NOT INTERESTED infront of all his friends. That would be something that he would remember for the rest of his life... and it could be devistating to him.
WHEW - I never typed this long of an answer before :-)
2007-09-12 06:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chris Clayton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be so many reasons but basically, if he doesn't have saliva dripping off his chin, or a raincoat and no pants, maybe he's just the shy type. If you're interested in him, as opposed to just being interested in why he's gawking at you, say something. If not, say nothing and he'll eventually disappear.
2007-09-12 06:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by pwpi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay, he is related to the lucky little leaping leprachaun of Leprachaunville, Louisiana.
2007-09-12 06:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about saying hi to him and see what happens. Maybe you just have something stuck in your teeth and he doesn't know how to tell you.
2007-09-12 06:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really serious. He could be attracted to you but do not take it as love immediately. It could also be affection.
2007-09-12 06:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could like you. or, do you notice him staring at other people too? he could have a staring problem. look back at him all the time, and see if he stops.
2007-09-12 06:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by marieantoinette17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalker...he liks u...obviously....some guys show diffrent types of a filrt and some girls follow the lads...
talk to him if he is igroning u tell him to leave u alone and tell a teacher.
2007-09-12 06:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should report this to your teacher there is a difference in liking someone and being up upcess
2007-09-12 06:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you are hot, if you have any interest in him, go up to him and say hi, otherwise just ignore him
2007-09-12 06:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋