ok so i completely fell for a guy who i was friends with. he acted like he liked me we would make out and we were like best friends with benifits (no sex) anyway he lead me on, and he knew it, and he was with other girls and would tell me about it to make me jelouse. then we started hanging out more and he would come to my work (water park) and i would get him and our friend in so they can be kids lol and i introduced him to a girl i work with because im polite well they started talking and it was like screw me and yeah and i was hurt. mean things were said and we hated eachother. well now he wants to be with me and he repeated everything that hes ever done to me and apologized and i was so inlove with him and idk if i should give him another chance?
2007-09-12 07:49:10 · 15 answers · asked by pheonix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dONt!!!
2007-09-12 07:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! He's playing games. He wants you when you're not available, and wants other girls when you are available. He won't change unless he gets some therapy for this. Don't give him another chance unless you like being hurt. He'll do it again....And take a look at yourself. Maybe you were in love with him because he was hard to get???
2007-09-12 07:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by BrooklynInMyBones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are too many circumstances and too many behaviors that are not good. Your question indicates that he knew how you felt about him and took advantage of it just because he could get away with it. I think there is no real reason to trust him, and no basis for a relationship other than your past feelings. I'd move on and find someone who respects you and will treat you better.
2007-09-12 08:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Catra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. I'm not encouraging a broken heart but you won't know if you don't try to give it another go. Everyone deserves a second chance, right? It doesn't sound like he completely tore your heart out right, just give him another go and then make final decisions. Hope this helps. Bye.
2007-09-12 08:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by robinskyflowers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it seen like he came to his senses, he know u are a good person who he doesn't want to lose. I would give him another chance, if he mess up again I would be finish with him for good.
2007-09-12 08:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much punishment do you want. Wasn't once hurt enough? He is not the man for you, and never will be. "A Leopard never changes its spots." Your too nice!
Spartawo...
2007-09-12 07:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't, even if he say he sorry, when he does it once, he'll do it again. trust me, been there. No matter how much you love him, you deserve somebody who respects you, hope it wont take you as long to figure it out as it did me
2007-09-12 07:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from this guy! All he cares about is who he's gonna date next. Forget him!
2007-09-12 07:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Alyssa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ha advised you spot you later, that doesnt advise he doesnt misses you!! properly, sumtimes we adult men would be slightly nerdy at circumstances and this manly ego stops us someplace, yet as you stated you nevertheless love him, dont enable him flow.. i think we get love not extremely, so as quickly as discovered, why to leave that so extremely?
2016-10-10 11:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds a bit immature. keep him waiting. make him do a bit off crawling first. and show him you don't suffer fools gladly.
2007-09-12 07:57:46 · answer #10 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt you once, shame on him. Hurt you again, shame on you.
2007-09-12 08:07:55 · answer #11 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋