2007-09-12 06:04:54 · 39 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO. My good friend lives in San Francisco (nuff said there, bisexuals everywhere) had a relationship with a bisexual woman who was into raves and drugs and everything. they went out for almost 2 years and they were gonna go to the Burning Man festival. She was telling him how she loved him so much wanted a family, and to move in, and then the minute they got inside that place, she was OFF. She ran off with like 20 different guys and he didnt see her until the next morning. he had a dream she was cheating on him/sleeping in a certain guy's tent so he walked in, opened it up, and there she was! Needless to say he dumped her *** after that. She slept with guys and girls galore that night and didnt give a **** about him.
2007-09-12 06:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My b/f of 3 1/2 years is bisexual. I am very confused by all of it and have mixed feelings about how I found out. He didn't tell me for a few months (but somehow I think I suspected it) and by then I already had feelings and didn't care. Sometimes I wish I would have known from day 1 so I would have had the choice (as far as whether or not I would have continued the relationship) - but I try not to judge. Part of me (my heart?) feels like I can't accommodate all of his needs so I don't care if he is with other guys, but the other part (my brain?) tells me cheating is cheating, whether it's with a man or a woman. All you can do is be honest and hope for the best, I guess.
2007-09-12 06:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would, and have.
I wasn't "looking for it," but the person I was interested in (and vice versa, of course) was bi. It didn't bother me. We were together for a couple of years and were monogamous during that time. Come to think of it, I've been in relationships with a couple of different people who were bi.
In the name of full disclosure, I identified myself as bi as well, and so if nothing else the entire concept of bisexuality, and the knowledge/confidence/security that being bi doesn't mean you can't be monogamous, may have factored into my comfort level.
ETA It is always amazing to me how someone can present an anecdote about a relationship gone bad, with one person cheating up the wazoo (case in point: the Burning Man story in a previous answer) and conclude or imply that the core of the problem was the person's bisexuality. Apparently no one has ever even heard of
2007-09-12 06:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by ljb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way... There are too many variables. I am talking emotional as well as physical. Physically you would be taking a risk especially If the person that is bisexual is promiscuous; then you in turn, are sleeping with every partner that they have ever had. Best way to get an STD or worse. Emotionally there are not many that could accept being dumped by a girl for another girl or vice versa. If someone likes to play on both sides of the fence there are no problems with that as long as they do not involve me....
2007-09-12 06:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by DEREK E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the person lol Are we talking a girl bisexual or a guy bisexual this makes a big diff for me. I know I'm going to tick some people off with that opinion but to me it's just diff.
2007-09-12 06:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, i would. Why? Because i am bisexual myself, meaning i like both men and woman therefor i would have a relationship with both genders:)
2007-09-12 06:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure...bisexuals just have a larger dating pool to choose from than hetero or homo sexuals...I'd have no problem with him having had relationships in the past with people of either sex...as long as while we were together it was just us (unless we decided otherwise).
2007-09-12 06:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bisexual woman, yes. Bisexual man, no. It's just my preference. :)
2007-09-12 06:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, no... There is always a possibility one will not fulfill the partners expectations, but with a bisexual, it is guaranteed you will NEVER fulfill the expectations. And later have him experimenting and getting all confused? Nah, waste of time if you ask me.
2007-09-12 06:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Just because your BI doesn't mean you cheat. It just means you look at both genders as possible romantic partners. When you get married you will pick that special someone and be faithful for the rest of your life.
2007-09-12 06:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋