Have you ever had an affair?

Answer 1

always! life too short lol

Answer 2

I had been in a realtionship when i met the man who is now my husband... We met through friends, an wanted nothing more then to be friends with one another.. But it didnt' work that way, i ended up leaving the guy i was with to be with the guy im married to... Things didnt go so great in the beginning for us we both made some mistakes but it made me realize that i loved him more then i ever knew an i would never make the same mistake again so when we worked through all our problems an he ask me to marry him i was more then willing to cause i know that he is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with he is my husband an my best friend i can always count on him to be there.. we are now happily married an have our first child (3 weeks old)

Answer 3

I met my husband in 1975, and I became a widow on 6/25/07. I never cheated on him. We didn't have a very happy marriage for many years before he died because of his alcoholism. When he quit drinking, our marriage was in name only, but we stayed together. He lived his last 3 years with lung cancer, and my daughters and I, and one of his brothers, were all that he had. I took care of him, and stayed faithful to the end, and am glad I did.

Answer 4

I did and sometimes I wish that it had never happened. The guy and I became the best of friends and he had wanted to marry me but I could not marry him. He had too many problems. Having an affair is not always easy having to sneak around and having to lie all the time. I am now divorced and now married to someone else.

Answer 5

I have walked the line but never carried it over. People do have thoughs kind of thoughts after being with someone for a long time. People miss the thrill of the hunt. :)

Answer 6

No,

I believe in my vows. I would never cheat on my husband even though I know he has cheated on me.(chat lines, staying out all night, text msgs,etc.) Cheating does not just have to be physical. Once trust is lost it takes a long time to get it back. If they keep doing the same thing you never get it back.

Answer 7

No never, I've been on honeymoon for 20 years now. Make no mistake, I had oppertunities galore. Of her "best friends", co-workers and even one of her sisters. The fact is that my wife is my world and best friend.
She's like lady Di, comes around once in a lifetime, am such a lucky guy. My life is so complete!
Brian (South-Africa)

Answer 8

Yeah 15 years ago! He was a lot younger than me and ever so sweet! The only thing is I've a child as a result and I haven't seen him since! my husband was not happy and left me.

Answer 9

Yes and regretted the day it happen do not do it especially if your married because it will come back to you one way or the other. Divorce your spouse first and you will have better luck at finding another.

Answer 10

Never "went the distance" physically, but was tempted a couple of times. Bear in mind that there is also such a thing as "emotional infidelity" that can happen without a physical relationship. Inappropriate chat room conversations fall into that category - and there, I'm ashamed to say, I am guilty -- a long time ago. If you find yourself drifting in that direction, stop and get help for your relationship.

Answer 11

yes and i was miserable during the affair and in worse shape after it. not only did i screw up and loose my family at home but found out that well let's just say IT WAS A VERY STUPID AND SELFISH THING FOR ME TO HAVE DONE AND I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!