2007-09-12 06:12:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pls read this then u decide what u want to do pls pls pls read it pls pls
may i know why u want to commit suicide...look whatever ur name is do n't commit a suiside.. u said ur faid up of ur life why ur girl friend problem or a job problem ,or a family tension or all tension ...look commiting a suiside is not a way to get out of ur problems...but if u r a brave man u have to fight with problems this is the life some time life makes u happy and some time life may take u to a great trouble but the time had taken u to this stage then life will only remove u from the problem ..god has said apne karam karo phal ki chinta maat karo.look i m the best example im just 16 but i have so many tension in my life that i cant say as one problem is over the another takes place even i m faid up with my problems ..every one in this world has has problems more then we have then every one will start commiting suiside then thisworld is finished ...go and fight with the problem and win the battle remember that life is a challenge try to accept it and win
have faith in god. god is testing u and and ur power to fight so go for it accept the challenge
i told u want i have understood from my life or what my life has made me understood...
depends upon u how u take ur life...if then to u feel like commiting suiside then commit it i will not stop u infact its ur life now u decide what u want ..
bye my dear friend if u need more help then u can e-mail me priyal_mehta1990@yahoo.co.in
2007-09-12 18:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by monika m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a change. Are you a student? or do you have a job? I suggest you do something very different. Join a different group, take a trip if you can if only for a weekend. Volunteer to help someone else and you will see that everyone has problems. Are you eating well? Sometimes if we are not nourished, our brain thinks weird things. Are you getting enough sleep? Can you take a long walk and think about my suggestions and whether they will work for you? I know there are people nearby you that would be sad to read what you wrote.
2007-09-12 13:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy and relax, even the most difficult time in our life will pass, nothing stays forever including grief and sorrow. So be happy do somethings you enjoy and dont put so much emphasis on success or failure or what other people expect from you.
Eat good foot, get good sleep, go for a long walk in a park, make friends, make a list of the blessings in your life and a list of what is troubling you, learn to do what you want instead of what others want, and finally go to a psychiatrist and get counselling for your problems. Taking your own life is a sin. it takes a strong person to face their problems, so be brave, think of all the poor people who toil night and day just for a meal is your suffering greater then theirs ?
2007-09-12 20:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously English is not your first language so please ignore the rude comments of people who mocked the way you presented your question. No one here knows the details of why you are in so much emotional pain that you feel things are hopeless and you just want to stop the pain. i'm glad you took the time to write...this means you still feel a bit of hope over your situation, and you can begin with that to make things better.
If you leave the world, things can never get better. You never know what good things tomorrow can bring to turn your situation around for the better. Remember other times in your life when you have felt very very low like this...yet somehow things worked out, maybe not perfectly, but you went on and felt hopeful again. Life is worth living. Please read the link below, and print it out and hang it on your wall if you can. It has got me through many a tough time. I'm going through one now myself, yet I refuse to give up hope or disappoint the people who love me by giving in to my urge to escape.
Be strong. Pray, if it helps you. Take life one day at a time and try not to think about more than one problem at a time. Do what you can do today to improve your situation if only by a little bit. If you do this each day, things will be much better in time. Take good care of yourself, eat properly, sleep enough, don't turn to alcohol or drugs. Talk to someone who cares. Talk to someone who can offer suggestions, and be willing to listen and try them.
Never give up!
(((hugs)))
2007-09-12 13:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by ViSaja 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you kill yourself, let me tell you a little bit about how selfish this is. Two weeks ago a woman who was friends with my 9 year old daughter killed herself. She couldn't stand the thought of making simple day to day decisions. She shot herself in the heart. My daughter spend many days with her, riding horses on trail rides, going to church together, going to parties together.....my daughter will probably never get over the fact that this happened, she was devastated. The family of this woman is suffering from many emotions, they feel that somehow it is there fault. She hurt many people very badly by killing herself. My ex husband found her dead, he has to live with this for the rest of his life. I know other people who have killed themselves.....it hurts so many people because you can't find the courage to face life on life's terms. I suggest you find counseling, that way you can seek out options for you and your life. Life can have its hard parts, however once you live through the bad, it gets much better again, it makes you stronger. Try seeking other options first, most county's have free clinics where you can talk to someone...tell them that it is an emergency and they will help you. God Bless.
2007-09-12 13:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider carefully as this is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Get out and assist in a soup kitchen or in some other way to get your mind off your problem(s). The whole idea is to make somebody else do that.
2007-09-12 13:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor and tell the doctor you are depressed and need some medicine to help you. Life IS worthwhile. YOU are worthwhile. Don't end your life without a fight. There are many medications that can lift your spirits. God Bless You.
2007-09-12 13:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u gona kill ure self life is too short enjoy while u can if today is bad make tommrow better if u still dont fell better get a hobbie make some new friends talk to me i never shut up trust me do something instead is wasting time thinking of how u are gona kill ure self
2007-09-12 15:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call 1-800-Suicide ...and talk to someone before you do something to hurt yourself
We all feel down from time to time. Do not think you are alone. These bad days will pass and lead to good days later on....please call the number above. I am praying for you.
2007-09-12 13:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by pink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you are going to something really wrong!
in life eveything has solutions. You see each problem that we have, in reality that is created by us only. u will not believe it,, but think hard and u have the answer! so if u have created problem , who have the solution, only the thing is you have to struggle to find it!
best of luck
2007-09-12 17:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋