Im 18 and I live in San Diego. Ive always liked older women. But I have never had a girl older then me any tips ?
2007-09-12 06:14:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not difficult, there are plenty of older women that are attracted to young guys.
Your best bet is to be yourself, but be the best possible version of you, meaning don't be vulgar or silly. If you are, it only reminds them of why they shouldn't date younger guys.
When you are in their company, be attentive, flirt a little. It doesn't take much before you know if she's interested.
Good luck!
2007-09-12 06:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Corey,
My son was married to a girl 8 years younger than him. BAD MARRIAGE and ended in divorce.
He was devastated, and never wanted to meet anyone again, but went out with a woman from work who is 10 years older than him, who only asked him out as a joke.
that was 3 years ago, and they're the happiest people on earth.
She's the best thing that ever happened to him.
If you meet someone you would like to go out with, it doesn't matter what age they are as long as you enjoy eachothers company.
Some young woman are mature and some older woman aren't.
You'll know who's ment to be for you.
2007-09-12 06:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Amy Beware 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be able to keep up with an older woman. Don't spend all your time playing Madden or hanging out with your boys. Have a good job, your own place, and be mature in other respects too. Pay your bills and be able to pay for dates. A woman either want a man who can take care of her, or is as independent as she is. Living with mama won't be a good indicator that you're ready for a serious relationship with an older woman, who is probably wanting to get married soon. Just be prepared for that.
2007-09-12 06:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by HappyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Be polite as you would to any woman
2. Act matture especially since they are older
3. Talk to them in a respectable matur manner
4. Don't call them older but mature women
5. Make sure you are mannerable
6. Maybe go somewhere where older women usually go but be careful not to get in trouble
2007-09-12 12:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by BKool 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that 18 goes into 36 more times than 36 goes into 18?
2007-09-12 06:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WERE YOU I WOULD VISIT SOME "ASSISTED LIVING FACILITIES " OR THERE ARE SINGLE DANCES ETC THAT OLDER PEOPLE ATTEND. CALL THE SALVATION ARMY OR A PLACE WHERE THEY TAKE OLDER PEOPLE FOR SIGHT SEEING TRIPS ETC ETC. SINCE YOU ARE IN SAN DIEGO TAKE THE RED TRAIN TO THE BORDER, AND MEET OLDER FOLKS ON THE TRAIN ETC OLDER LADIES ARE VERY APPRECIATIVE AND KIND AND KNOWLEDGEABLE AND GENTLE.
2007-09-12 06:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated some "older" women. There really isnt a "Trick" just be yourself and try to be funny.
Thats pretty much all you have to do to get any woman. Be yourself and try to make her smile. Give her a complement but dont over complement her. Try to give her a complement about something different. I.E. instead of saying she has nice hair say something like nice earings, something most people wouldnt notice....
2007-09-12 06:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women would be very flattered if you chatted them up in a bar! Good luck.
2007-09-12 06:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, find an older women and ask her out.
2007-09-12 06:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women dig much younger guys, some don't...I don't know of any particular "tricks"...but then I've never been attracted to a guy young enough to be my kid.
Good luck in your search.
2007-09-12 06:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋