because i know i will be get hurt when i continue this love..
2007-09-12 04:20:22 · 7 answers · asked by pepzee123456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By loving yourself too much to accept anything less than someone who loves you equally or just as much!
Start by hugging the inner you and rebuilding your self esteem. It will take time, but it will happen. Limit your grieving to less than 14 days. Do whatever it takes, whether its crying your eyes out, beating a pillow, eating pints of ice cream, just wash your face and make yourself beautiful again for the One to welcome you into his world.
2007-09-12 04:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People believe that love is something you have no control over but that is a myth. We all CHOOSE whom we will love or not love.
If you believe this man will hurt you, trust your instinct. Just write down all the reasons for falling out of love with him (the things you don't like, don't trust, etc.) and when you feel yourself falling, read your list. Read it as often as you have to.
2007-09-12 04:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Judith L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been down this road b4!! i knew this person was bad for me and that she didnt care for me the way i cared for her so in order for me not get hurt any further i cut her off completely!! i avoided here every way i could! we didnt talk for a whole year & 1/2 and we went to school together too so it was hard to avoid her!! believe me it was hard! i thought about her all the time for about 5 months but as time went on i notice i didnt desire for her anymore! i had gotten over her and i was so happy! we're coo with each other now and i dont view her as anything but a friend! i believe the cut off was the best thing i could've done and i would highly recommend it to you!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-09-12 04:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dman #4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cut this person off COMPLETELY until you can get over them. THat means, no text msgs, no phone calls, block their myspace page, no contact at all! and for god's sake don't do the rebound method like most of these chicks do. (losers) you need to find what makes you happy in life, things that you can do without a girlfriend. Like traveling, dancing, anything. Then in your next relationship you won't be so clingy. You know your over them when you can honestly deal with them having another bf/gf. until you get to that point cut them off!
All my bad relationships ended with me not wanting to leave them alone in fear for them finding another man. Well when I cut them off and got over them, I actually feel sorry for the next man that has to go thru the BS with them and now I'm happy with the women I date now. True story
2007-09-12 04:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by Mic B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to give yourself the time to grieve and get through it....
took me 2 yrs to get over my last boyfriend.. true story.
sometimes we have to end relationships that are not working out. do what you feel is in YOUR best interest.
don't forget to keep busy when you can -- friends, hobbies, family, join a group (gym? class?)...
2007-09-12 04:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut all ties with this person. I'm sure it's hard (i've been there before) but it is definitely the right thing to do!
2007-09-12 04:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by mally_pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love...its the only way
2007-09-12 04:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋