hey so i go to school...and my history (male) teacher is always staring at my boobs i no it sounds stupid but he is hhe always asks me to stay after class with him and he sometimes rubs my arm and tells me i'm doing great,is this normal?
2007-09-12 08:05:12 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pedophile. If he goes any further than that go to the Principal IMMEDIATELY!
2007-09-12 08:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 10⤊ 1⤋
NO,it's not normal at all,this pig should be reported,go tell the headteacher/your parents.
And don't stay behind after class next time he asks you to,he's hardly going to punish you for that when he's being a pervy sleeze.
But definitely report this or some other innocent girl will cop for it and who knows how far he will go,cos what he's doing to you will just be the start of his filthy plan,and other girls might not be as sensible or as brave as you and will possibly be led to believe (by him) that it's normal and a secret.
Don't be scared hun,none of this is your fault and you WILL be doing the right thing in reporting him,just be honest and say exactly what he's doing thats making you so uncomfortable.
DO NOT listen to anyone who is suggesting that you may be leading him on by wearing low cut tops etc.... Listen hun,even if your boobs were out,he as a teacher and an adult should know better and abide by the rules that are set out to protect kids like you.
I think it's disgraceful that anyone could make you feel that it's possibly you thats lead him on and caused him to perv over you,no wonder so many kids keep quiet about things like this.
Makes me wonder if they'd have the same view if it were their own kids!!!!!
You are 13,he's a grown man (Self control springs to mind)
2007-09-16 01:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it makes you feel uncomfortable, I don't suppose there's any question of you getting the wrong end of the stick.
What you need to do is to say to him that you are feeling uncomfortable in staying on your own with a male teacher. That your parents told you that you have to leave at the same time as the rest of the class.
If he insists on keeping you behind, ask him to write you a note and keep them. You can then show them to your parents.
Also, he is definitely not supposed to touch you at all. No teacher is supposed to have physical contact with a pupil, and they should also respect their personal space, which means that they can't come too close to you.
This is not right at all. I can't believe that he is not aware of that.
Go and speak to your guidance teacher and tell her or him exactly what you've just told us.
Something will be done about it. Don't wait any longer.
If you are just mistaken then at the worst you'll be moved to another class and if you are in danger, then at least that will put a stop to it.
Don't wait darling.
2007-09-12 08:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally wrong. He shoudn't be touching you at all for any reason. Not even if you fall down to help you up.
Staring at you, even if you are more developed than the other girls, it's wrong. You have to tell your counselor or V-principal about this and ask to get a nother teacher.
Never ever stay in class alone with home again until then. Always ask a friend to stay no matter what he says.
2007-09-12 08:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ Yes it is wrong what this teacher is doing to you. A teacher should never stare at your boobs, they should never keep you after class just to touch your arms and tell you that you are doing well. Immediately go to the principal so that something can be done. If you'd rather talk to your parents or guidance counseler first feel free to do that. Just make sure its an adult you can trust! Good Luck!
2007-09-12 08:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO IT IS NOT NORMAL. He is breaking the boundaries between tutor and pupil and you should not allow yourself to be alone with him ever. If he asks you to stay behind make an excuse to go or ask a friend to stay with you. If you can possibly say to him DONT do that and move your arm, he may get the message. If he doesnt OR he tries to touch you anywhere else then you must report it to someone you trust.
2007-09-12 08:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Frufru111 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Warning Bells going off!
Teachers are not supposed to touch their students. And boob-staring is a definite no-no. Report the teacher to your guidance counselor and demand to be transferred to another history class with a different teacher. Tell your parents as well.
2007-09-12 08:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 23:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ime 13 and NEVER had tht done to me!
All I can suggest is tell your parents first and if he does go further DEFINITLY without question see ur head teacher
hes a perv and you know the rest
the head teacher will get police involved so its a good idea to tell ur head
2007-09-12 08:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal. Give him a shocked look every time he looks at your boobs, to let him know you can see him doing it and that you don't like it. And also pull away every time he touches your arm, to let him know you are uncomfortable with this.
If he goes any further tell another member of staff and your parents
2007-09-12 08:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, then no, it is not acceptable. As a 13 year old, you need to examine your wardrobe and make sure you are not "presenting" your boobs to be looked at. Second, you need to go to a school administrator. PLEASE make sure you are telling the truth. Your actions may very well cost him his job and his career. If he is actually doing this, he deserves to lose them. If he is not, and you are simply looking for attention, then he does not.
2007-09-12 08:17:15 · answer #11 · answered by ragann63 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋