Sorry I need to give more detail on the relationship on line thing. Yes we live between 1 1/2 to 2 hours away. I'm in an ending marriage & I believe he is in an unhappy one too. We both seen eachother on cam so there are no suprises. And yes..I do trust this man with my safety. At one point we were ready to meet till I got goofy cause I realised I had a connection with him. Things got worse because of ME. we took time off for a bit. Came back and it's still going no where tho he is dealing with personal stuff now & I'm ok with the "break" he is taking. We all need those at times. This whole thing happen by accident neither of us was looking for love. We were to meet back in May..but it got called off do to me being stupid. At that point I asked to meet again sometime but I wasn't gonna be the one to bring it up again. I let the ball in his court. We are both busy ppl I realise but my god......how long do I have to wait at least for a date?
2007-09-12 13:32:08 · 4 answers · asked by casey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is married then you need to move on and find a guy that is not taken. I dont understand all these women going after guys that say that they are in an "unhappy" marriage etc etc...
How would you feel if your husband was hanging out, chatting, cheating, flirting, etc etc etc with another woman?
There are plenty of SINGLE men out there
2007-09-12 13:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know if he is in an unhappy marriage, but you are talking to him on line. Sure sounds like it is an unhappy one, but I wonder if his wife knows how bad it really is. You don't know if he is getting a divorce, only that you have a thing going. You better think real hard about this, because you will get a divorce, and he will stay married, telling you that he can't afford to get one. You will then become the other woman and live the way you are now, wondering when you will have a date.
2007-09-12 13:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still in a marriage, you need to wait until that marriage is over! You seem confident that your marriage is over, but you seem less confident about his (I believe he is in an unhappy one too.) If there are problems in his marriage, you don't need to be one of them. Stay out of the way and let the chips fall where they may, if they stay together, if they divorce, you should not be mixed up in it at all! You are asking for trouble! If it is to be, it will be, don't push, don't force, don't rush. He's still married, leave him be, you don't need to be sitting around driving yourself crazy wondering when you're going to get a date with a married man! Is that what you want for yourself, because thats how its always going to be so long as he is married to someone else.
2007-09-12 13:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by grace95838 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe stop being afraid and ask him to meet you and actually meet --- the distance is not really a hinderance unless you let it be --- then when you meet make sure you are both on the same page as far as what you both want from the relationship ---- best wishes
2007-09-12 13:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋