is it bad to lose ur virginity to someone whos not a virgin too?

Question

is it different then if u lose it to someone who is a virgin ?

did anyone lose their virginty to someone who wasnt a virgin ?

please dont be mean 2 me
he says he loves and me but idk if maybe he loved the other girls or not idk

he says he loves me and i love him too ( =

Answer 1

No, in fact most people lose their virginity to someone experienced. That is how you learn.

You don't put 2 people who don't speak French in a room and tell them to go learn from each other. Yes, if they have proper learning materials they can learn it eventually, BUT it is much easier and quicker if you put a novice in with a fluent speaker.

In the end this is what is important. Don't do anything until you are 100% sure that this is what you want. Once you lose your virginity you can't get it back. You will always remember it, so make your choice wisely.

Answer 2

I don't think it is a bad thing to lose your virginity to someone who is not a virgin. It can make for a more interesting experience, rather than both people not knowing too much about what is going on. I lost my virginity to someone who was not a virgin, and it definitely made the encounter better. Judging by your statements, though, it sounds like you are not ready, for one reason or another, to do this. If you aren't ready, don't do it and don't let the guy coerce you into it. Whatever you do, use protection. Don't make it a memorable occasion for a really bad reason, like an unplanned pregnancy or sexually-transmitted disease.

Answer 3

No it's not bad. I lost my virginity to someone who wasn't a virgin, and I felt more comfortable because at least one of us knew what we were doing.

Obviously I couldn't compare it to anything else because you only lose it once. I'm sure both are fine if you care about each other. I think that's more important than whether both are virgins or not.

Answer 4

As long as you really love each other it doesn't matter. And you have to be ready for this. I personally lost my virginity to someone that was not a virgin. It was a bit tense for me, I was scared I wouldn't measure up, but it all turned out okay.

Answer 5

Its not really that important if he/she is a virgin.

You should be more conerned as to are you ready to do so and how mature your relationship with the other party is.

However, if you're just having casual sex, it might be better to do it with someone who's not a virgin, they have more experience so the MIGHT not hurt you in the process. It might also be more pleasurable as they know how and where to hit the right spots.

Answer 6

You sound indecisive. It is better if you two r in love. Or have a ravingsexual attraction to them. I used to be a physical lover but God had to show me how to be a romantic lover. Each person I have a relationship with will be either a romantic or physical sexual relationship or a mixture of romantic and physical. This is God's way of me not becoimg dependant on the person instead of on Him.

Answer 7

Sometimes its different for the guy when the girl is a virgin because she is very tight.

Answer 8

depends, has he lost his virginity to someone with aids or hiv, or does he have it himself? you are just boyfriend - girlfriend, no marriage?

if the answer is yes to either not good

only do this with someone who you have married or you face the problem of an unwanted child (condums don't always work) and if they had sex with or have HIV or AIDS this is not safe.

Answer 9

no