There are 3 childern two boys and one girl and youngest is 2 years old and the oldest is 5 years old and the middle is 4 years old i known since they moved here I Played with this summer and they loved me though i am just nerorous PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! serious awnders
2007-09-12 13:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by softballgirl294@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't be nervous! Your primary job is to keep them safe; just keep that in mind. That is more important above everything else.
Another job, though not as important as safety, is to keep them entertained or happy. That way they will tell mom and dad "we had fun!" and mom and dad will love you. It already sounds like you are doing that if you are playing with them this summer.
Big Tip: Don't sacrifice safety for happy. If a kid is doing something wrong or unsafe; don't be afraid to get on to him or her. You are the authority figure. I used to worry that kids wouldn't like me anymore if I got stern with them. That is not true. They will look up to you and respect you. Just try to have fun when they are being good. But don't be afraid to turn on them if they are being bad.
You will do fine! Don't worry!
Have some fun and keep the phone handy (just in case you need to call for an emergency; although it is really unlikely)
Good luck!
2007-09-12 14:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must really love you because for parents to leave their three children to a thirteen year old, no ofense, its really rare. I got a job in my school's day care..mostly teacher's childs n i think i might be able to help you..u need to have a lot of games, find out what they like and plan activities they might be interested in..songs u can ask them to sing their fav. song even the abc..2 year olds can be the worst you have to be behind them the whole time because a lot can happen in 5 seconds.kids love food so.This is a serious job u should be nervous and worried it would be better to have somebody with you to make the job less stressing..but u have to be extremely patient because they can get on your nerves..if they are being disobedient give them a time out or have treats not candy jus like oatmeal cookies and dont give them to them until they are behaving properly..this is not an easy job is not like when you play with them for a while n then an hour later you give them back to their parents because they are being annoying you are completely responsible if something happens to them so take it seriously and be responsable..
2007-09-12 21:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by crucita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously do not have babysitter training and because you are so insecure, the parents of these kids are just looking to USE you for a night out. Get a friend to help or a sister, cousin, mother, etc until you are more comfortable. This is too heavy of a burden for a 13 year old. Don't let them use you. If you aren't comfortable than DON'T DO IT> It is OK to say no.
2007-09-12 21:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, you'll do fine. These kids know you and probably asked their Mom for YOU to babysit them. Your #1 priority is to keep them safe until their parents get back. Mostly that means keeping an eye on them to prevent any accidents before they occur.
Make sure you know the "house rules" before the parents leave and know when they are expected back.
Once they leave the more you can keep the children occupied with safe activities the easier it will be. Games, music, dress up, blocks, coloring, reading stories are all safe choices. "I Spy" will work with the older two as well.
As a back up, keep your parents' phone number handy to call for advice - and make sure you have the children's parents' phone numbers to call if there is a real emergency.
2007-09-12 21:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Liisa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure they know who the boss is without causing world war III. Set rules but have fun. Have little rewards in place for when they are good but nothing too sugary that they're bouncing off the walls. Sit them in front of the tv with a hot drink (after they have been fed) and a blanket when its nearly time to go to bed.
It works - i practically brought my 2 sisters up from when i was age 7 - honestly.
2007-09-12 21:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Trekzta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids love to play games!! Hide and seek, go fish, tag and numerous other games. Have fun and good luck.
2007-09-12 20:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax. have all the phone numbers handy, their folks will give you the house rules; bedtime,snacks,tv etc. play with them, read books, color, settle arguments. when all else fails, call your mom for advice. that's what she's there for.
2007-09-12 21:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to what the parents ask of you. they will let you know their rules - follow them.
2007-09-12 21:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...........calm down!
2nd dont panic
3rd have fun!
good luck!
2007-09-12 21:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by blahblah- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋