well, just to start off with, i've liked him for a really long time, even though he's become really popular lately and way out of my league...=/
ok, so i thought he would be happy and all, b/c he's going out with this super-popular girl and he scored like five touch downs at the last few football games and his popularity is like soaring and all
but when i talk to him, he seems really sad/ angry. my other friends have noticed it also, they ask me about it because they think i'm the one he confides in. if i ask him whats wrong he doesnt answer no or yes.
his parents are kind of getting divorced... but anyway the reason i'm kind of worried about him is because he was about to get in a fight and got in-school suspension. and he's not usually that kind of person. he's failling all his classes and i just dont know whats up or if anything is up at all.
is there anything i can or should do? or should i just stay out of it?
2007-09-12 13:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know what divorce is like...my parents are divorced
and my step-mom hates me seriously i have a restraining order
i mean i could help him through itt! if he would just tell me whats wrong???
2007-09-12 14:01:49 · update #1
wow. i guess all you can do is keep talking to him. hopefully he'll breakdown and confess whats going on. just stick around and see what happens. i hope all is well with him. you know, if it gets to the point were you get really concerned for his well being, you could talk to your counselor or his family.
2007-09-12 13:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are there for him if you he wants to talk and leave it alone. You don't want to push him into talking to you. You want him to make that decision on his own, and the chances are he will if you just menchin that you are there for him and whatnot. He will probably act like he doesn't care about what you just said, but a minute or so after you walk away he will probably think about it and it will bug him for a while until he decides that he should talk with you. Then, you can help him. Just let he vent and tell you whatever he is feeling or if the problem has nothing to do with his parents getting divorced. Even if he doesn't come and talk to him, at least he will know that you are there for him and that should help make him feel at ease.
2007-09-12 14:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bobert R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... well you could start opening up to him then after a few times you've opened up he's going to realize you're opening up and trust him so he'll trust you back and tell you whats wrong. Sometimes getting adults involved make you lose the friendship because the other person might get the wrong idea.
2007-09-12 14:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by cotton candy~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become a lesbian then....haha j/k well i have a TON of guy friends and the one guy that had a girlfriend who neglected you.... well that's what guys do. when they are getting p*ssy then they tend to spend lots of time with that girl. the other guy seems like he probably had a rough day or something. don't take things so literally. also, have you ever thought of asking them why they are acting the way they are??
2016-05-18 01:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is very sad because of his family problem. Talk to him again and give him some advise or you can try to get help from your school counselor to counsel him
2007-09-12 14:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school counselor. Let him/her handle it. And just be there for him. Be his friend.
2007-09-12 13:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by escher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh, divorce......... lots of stored up anger. a major life event
2007-09-12 13:58:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋