So many times my husband tells me swapping stories during love making. Now he want to make true these fantacies real. I am confuse and afraid that what will happen if I involve. Please guide me if any body experienced.
2007-09-12 23:05:20 · 43 answers · asked by Suchi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
10 months back you had asked the same question & got good many replies, now again many replies you have already got. The fact is that it’s not only your husband’s fantasy but it’s even your own fantasy to experience the swapping game, whether you agree here or not but this fact you can not deny. I need not say the harmful effects of this nor I will suggest you to never experience it in reality. If your husband is fantasying such stories during love making then you too start fantasying them, whats the harm in that. Fantasying any relationship which may be bizarre in nature if it enhances your sexual desire its not bad for enjoying good sexual relationship with your spouse, some couples not only fantasies such sexual relationship but even do role play (like husband & wife of someone else) to bring more variety in their relationship. All such are good when both of them do it amongst themselves & mutually enjoy it. No law of the country stops any husband & wife to do all such sexual activities which are not against the nature, mutually agreed & done between them. Indulging in unnatural sex is no doubt punishable offence under section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, but only when it is complained by any of the sexual partner, in close doors most of the married or even unmarried couples indulge in unnatural sex which remains a closely guarded secret between them. I need not ask or tell you with regard to all such sexual activities as its your personal affair & your bedtime activity. Mind you no one will tell you here openly if he or she ever indulged in any unnatural sex or bizarre sex or swapping etc although if you check their profile of people who have replied your question , you may come to know how much they indulge or are interested in all such sexual activities.
2007-09-14 03:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 14⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is Ok, but if the same person comes to the world of fantasy and imaginations, it would build up unwanted desire towards that person.
So first of all, you tell your husband to bring in different people to the spicy fantasies.
Then, take care, he wants to go for a swap with his friend and his wife. Sure, he has a desire for his friend's wife. You have to kill his desire towards her.
You need some wise advise in this regard . Better seek the help of a professional psychiatrist.
One more caution, NEVER...NEVER talk to your parents or his parents or any other frinends or relatives, that your husband is keeping such a desire.
Your husband is precious, don't let lose his confidence in YOU.
Anyhow he has been open minded to ask you if you agree. You just tell him, let us continue enjoying the fantasies with some glamourous film stars or models rather than your own friends.
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My husband want to involve me in wife swapping with his close friend. What to do? I am puzzled. Please guide.?
So many times my husband tells me swapping stories during love making. Now he want to make true these fantacies real. I am confuse and afraid that what will happen if I involve. Please guide me if any body experienced.
2015-08-07 00:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, in past the trend of wife swapping is actually on a rise but ppl r not accepting it openly, we are not really sure what could be the consequences ?
I can only put it bluntly tha you ask your husband if he is happy if u have a one night stand with someone with his consent, and in that case / scenario will he be happy to accept you,
the answer of this will be the answer to your above querry too.
2007-09-12 23:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by freekinguy4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your husband's friend's wife and ask her about her opionion on this subject. If she doesnt mind and agreed to have sex with your husband then you should also do it with her husband. By d way did you swapped ?
2015-09-03 04:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by dipen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even in India People are getting more and more involve in wife swapping, some hate it some like it, it’s up to you if you like it go for it just say no.
2007-09-14 01:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
hi,as a mature n experienced person,i can only advise u not to indulge in such things.it will be the end of your marriage for one thing n u will lose any n all respect for yourself as well as your husband.once u get into something like this,there is no way out.he will think of other such deviations for u to take part in.please be firm n tell him u cant n will not do it.take care n have a nice day.shabirnc
2007-09-12 23:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by shabirnc 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I say go for it.If you like the taste of the other person and enjoy feeling hi **** in you all the better.Just don t plan to fall in love.Enjoy the passion and definitely do same room.Watching each other ******* is so hot.
Goingdown on the other guys wife could be exciting
2016-05-09 05:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋