i found true loved on him i know he also loved me.. but he cheated me and even let the girl bother me. he's a military men. he said it is just normal for them, for a men to sleep with someone else, and had sex.. but it hurts. i never did the same. i wanted to take revenge but how. i ask him if he love me still and he said yes, and it was just nothing. all i have to do is to accept it. i tried, i am trying but the pain is still here.. i wanted to broke up with him, i tried not not to think bout him bout he occupied my mind. i tried not to think bad when hes not texting but i cannot. i am in deep pain. its my ego. its my pride he step on it. i love him very much but it made me feel sick. i want to let go of my feelings but i cannot. i love him so much that it tears me up inside. we are miles apart. we are separated because of our profession. if only i could find someone to replace him. maybe i'll let him go.
2007-09-12 23:58:26 · 7 answers · asked by sai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time to let go of your feelings. A lot of time.
You're not looking for a replacement. You're looking for love. A person in love with you wouldn't sleep with someone else.
Try to occupy your time with other things before getting into another relationship such as a good hobby, school, work, and spending quality time with friends or family.
2007-09-13 00:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by Boon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf broke up with me 3 months ago, but it was not because I cheated, it was because of other family related reasons. I am now single, I want her back so much. Even though it has been 3 months, the fact that I want to make it up to her and get my ex gf back, I haven't even bothered looking at other women, cause no one on earth could ever replace her, its as simple as that.
Why am I telling you this...?
because you ought to find your soulmate, who would never cheat on you. You deserve better, someone for whom you are just not replacable. Simple as that. So take some time out, let him go, his reasons for cheating on you are so awful, he sounds selfish. Have faith, I hope you find your true love....
2007-09-13 00:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rajiv T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wish to be rude, but he's probably not the love of your life. If he were then he wouldn't cheat on you. I have an uncle who was in the military(recently got out) and when he was married he never cheated on his wife. My advice is don't settle for less it might be hard but he'll either come around or you'll avoid a mistake that could waste years of your life. Hope you can do what you feel needs to be done.
2007-09-13 00:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Monica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not. This man trampled on more than your pride. He slept with another woman. That is not "normal" military action. He might as well have spit in your face, because it's the same thing.
No woman should be treated like that. Drop him like a rock and move to somebody who will treat you with respect.
2007-09-13 00:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by mickeluna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get sad, get mad. You stayed faithful, but he says that it is okay for him to be unfaithful. That is so sexist and suck BS that it makes me angry!!! He doesn't derserve a nice person like you. You will find a good man that will respect you one day. Let this jerk go. He will end up bringing you home a disease one day anyway!!!
2007-09-13 00:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love someone, u let that person have his or her freedom. Let him do what pleases him. Let him go
2007-09-13 00:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by emepeg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheat once, he can do it twice ! so replace him by some1 else ! he's not the only man on earth
2007-09-13 00:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mr LB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋