okay so theres 2 brothers and the older one meets a new girl and they start dating and are together for about six months. then tragedy strikes and the older brother dies. would it be wrong for the younger brother and the girl to start dating?
2007-09-12 23:52:12 · 17 answers · asked by new h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope I don't think it is bad at all but I am sure their will be akward moments.
2007-09-12 23:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Clark K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kind of depends on what the brother was like, whether the younger brother thinks that the older one would be happy with it or not. Personally I think that there is nothing wrong with it, but I think that's partly because I dont beleive that there is any way that the deceased brother would know. It's their choice, so long as they are prepared to support each other because it's likely that both will grieve.
2007-09-13 07:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ Rachel ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. As long as the girl realises that the younger brother is not the older and that they are two different people. It could be that she transfers her feelings for the older to the younger, which would be to the advantage of the younger, but might not be her actual feelings for him. I would wait a while, before starting a relationship.
2007-09-13 06:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Christelle J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that, but to show a little bit of respect to the memory of the dead brother, allow some time for the "mourning period"--a period of time depending on how much the younger brother loved his older brother.
2007-09-13 07:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an emotional question. I think they can start dating, Nothing is bad in this relationship b'coz older brother is not alive.bt the for the success of this relationship both girl & boy should keep in mind to forget those thinks which r related to " girl & older brother's relationship."
2007-09-13 07:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by rahul j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brine think more_ well you have to see what kills the older brother first if he died from a normal issue then I can not see why not. Except if the small brother not getting married with this girl then it will be hard for the girl to be left for a bad memories from the two brothers
2007-09-13 07:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong but it could make emotional situations between them they don't need it it will effect on their feelings(if they have feelings for each other) they have to take it slowly specially if the older brother didn't die from along time, the world is full with girls and it full with guys so it's not the end of the world if they will not be together.
2007-09-13 07:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where these guys are.. in Africa, its acceptable in some communities. All the same, i think its absolute disrespect for the dead brother, for the older one to "invade his territory". She should just move away from the confines of that family circle, unless they were married, and had kids who need to be taken care of.
2007-09-13 06:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by aminimungu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon for that. You both would probably be using each other for comfort. It may seems like love, but it would only be a comforting situation. Why not just remain friends and help each other through this. You may eventually be able to have a nice relationship.
2007-09-13 06:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two maybe pulled together because they are missing the brother that died. Take things slow.. you may get yourself into another emotional situation because of how you are feeling. Time heals..
2007-09-13 06:56:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! The older brother would be rolling in his grave.
2007-09-13 06:56:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋