i get the feeling he thinks it's dirty or something. but this is actually when i feel most sexy and want sex a lot. ok, maybe he "doesn't like it". but i often have sex with him WHEN I DON'T WANT TO,,just to please him. i feel really hurt, like he's rejecting a part of me/my womanhood. shall i tell him i'm jst not gonna see him AT ALL during my period, if he can't deal with it?
2007-09-12 22:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, first...tell him thats how you feel about it and that you want to know why he won't touch you- then say to get over it and grow up cause that it's kool. next i would suggest not having sex with him at all, till he snaps. that will be fun to watch...lol... just don't see him while you've got your period.
2007-09-12 23:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by cheeky_blonde_14 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I haven't met a man yet that doesn't get a little squeamish at the sight of blood. I think that is why some women consider it the woman's "curse". Since part of sex is the visual experience, can you honestly say that if he was oozing from down below, you would stay turned on?
It's only a temporary thing. After you have been with a man for awhile, there are those times when he just can't think straight and will take it anyway he can.
You also have later in life to look forward to.. when your man is past his sexual prime and you are just entering into yours... so unfair!
2007-09-13 06:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't blame him, it's really gross for some guys to think about, it would turn me right off if I were a man. I think as a woman you would be less likely to want sex during this time, it takes the sexy out of it when you bleed al over the place, yuck!
2007-09-13 06:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love having sex right AFTER a girl is done with her period. Thats when she usually feels the most pleasure. Try that instead.
2007-09-13 05:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joe T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just wondering if you do absolutely everything he wants you to do, during sex. Or do you draw a line somewhere. Like he does.
2007-09-13 06:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men don't want to have sex when a woman has her period. Frankly, I can't blame them. Would you want somebody else's blood on you? Think about it.
2007-09-13 07:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for hygiene reasons it is best not to have "s" or "touch down there" when you have blood on-going.
you can still both care and show tenderness by kissing and touching on other body parts or going somewhere worthwhile & memorable place/thrill of event or adventure or outing during those times you have such m.period.
2007-09-13 06:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rio Negro 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its messy having sex during ur period becos of the blood , experts say its easier to contact infections if u have sex during ur period.i understand how u feel as concerns having sex when u dont feel like jus to please him and him not doing same for u jus talk to him concerning how u feel leting him know how sexy u feel during ur period & how u indulge him even when u donot feel like,maybe he will undestand .
goodluck
2007-09-13 06:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by leggy_06_15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you want to touch him if he's bleeding from one of his orifices?
Wake up little girl he's not rejecting you he's just being damn clever from what I can see.
2007-09-13 06:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he shouldn't be like that.
he should accept everything if he really loves you.
menstruation is a natural thing.
but you shouldn't have sex when u r mens....
2007-09-13 06:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew Petrucci 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋