2007-09-12 23:14:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'm still enjoying getting to know you, and not ready for something this serious. If you really want to be with me for the rest of our lives, you will understand that I need time, and give it to me.
2007-09-13 04:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by kimandryan2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine did after less than 3 mos -- been married now 8 1/2 years!!
i don't recommend it, but we knew we wanted to make that commitment -- it CAN work but only the 2 of you can decide that
2007-09-13 16:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPandemonium 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not very long. You don't even know everything about each other yet. You just do what your heart tells you and if you decide to say "yes" you make it a long engagement. Sometimes you just know, I knew my husband was the one for me after 3 minutes, but I certainly wouldn't have rushed into anything like that.
2007-09-13 06:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by j81s79j06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel. My bf and I have been together for less than 2 months and are getting married in 7 months. It feels perfect for us.
2007-09-13 16:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angela O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out what his real motive is. 3 months is not a long time to know someone. I would just tell him no and wait it out possibly 3 yrs.
2007-09-13 09:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you want to commit to him or not.
I never thought I'd get married, got engaged after being with someone for 3 months, and we're about to celebrate our 4th wedding anniversary.
If it's right, then you just know.
Why the thumbs down????
2007-09-13 09:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by jess b 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't marry someone I'd only been dating for three months. I believe it's still the lust or honeymoon phase at that point and you can't tell how your relationship will grow and develop at that point.
2007-09-13 07:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by tink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say, "wow, this is all so sudden. I really think we should just wait a while, at least a year more of dating."
If he gets offended by your answer, he doesn't love you. He loves the idea of getting married.
2007-09-13 09:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that is too soon to be getting married...but if you're sure that you love him then go for it...the most important thing is that YOU are happy...don't spend the whole of a relationship trying to make the other person happy.
2007-09-13 06:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by substitute_for_real_emotion 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say yes. Just because he ask you to marry him doesn't mean it has to be done right away. Set a date for a few yrs from now.
2007-09-13 06:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by lakarinasada 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋