My gf & I have been in a long dist. rlship for almost one year now on plans to be togther again soon as we r capable, but we r very much in love, n tryn our best to be together again since we had to leave each other cuz of parents problems. anyhow, i just found out recently by going thro her email, that one of her exes has emailed her, n she replied bak to him, reminiscing about old times with him. (keep in mind, i specfically told her not to ever talk to this guy again..espcially him, n she promised she wouldnt ever...)n wats worse is that she pretty much told him she doesnt have a bf..she didnt use these exact words,.. soo anyways.. wat do u think i should lol..i couldt break her head in half if she were here now, but good thing she isnt...im thinkng of callin n tell str8 up n break up with her....or?? any other suggestions??... or i can just wait for more emails 2 see how far they will go...(2 girls..pls be smart about ur email thing..its so easy 2 find out everything.)
2007-09-14 02:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is she knows i have her email address, and she didt everything to try to hide the emails, by deleting the inbox and trash, but the idiot forgot the SENT lol..and she also forwarded those emails to some other email i dont know about. so she knows she's doing somehting wrong...
2007-09-14 02:15:53 · update #1
hey.....
same case here....
now i have broken off with her....
in fact she dumped me.... and there was a huge hue and cry...
i advice dont be too sticky....
the only reason these girls have that they feel alone and they forget that we are alone too since we are not staying together.
control your anger.... talk to her... be polite...
love her... dont show any signs that you are hurt or worried....
try making her remember of old times...
Then while doing all this be intuitive...
see if she hates talking of old times,
complaines about even those things which made you both fall in love, complaines about you etc....
now dont be very harsh on her.... anybody can do mistakes...
but i think you should be alert enough to know if she is cheating.... and protect yourself....
dont do anything foolish which may make you repent later...
think ten times before acting....
do not surrender in any form.....but love, trust and be intuitive
2007-09-14 02:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by back to life and enjoying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one. Im a guy and us guys can be quite protective of our girlfriends. If you love her i wouldnt go and break up with her striaght away. Ask her if she loves you. If you get an Imediate Yes then you know she probaly does. Dont make it obveous you were looking through her mail, pretend you opened it by accident and ask Why you were speaking to your Ex but dont sound to pissed off. The long distace thing is probaly the problem she doesnt get to see you a whole lot, try to see her when you can.
2007-09-14 02:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start out, sorry about your dilemma...my opinion would be to talk it out & see where it goes from there...be careful though, cause now she'll know you read her emails, & she'll turn it around on you doing something wrong cause you invaded her privacy...honestly though, it doesn't appear that she might be the one for you...if she's writing, especially after a promise was made not to, & talking about old times, then she's obviously not thinking of the affect it may have on you, considering she never even mentioned you...it seems she was hiding that fact for a reason...it's ok to talk to old flames, but not in that manner...if someone is really in love, they wouldn't break the trust factor...but, you won't know till you talk it out...& please don't do anything rash if you hear something you don't like...heart-ache is not cool, but it's not worth any trouble...if it's that complicated, then find someone knew...someone who only wants you...i wish you both the best of luck...if it's meant to be, it will be, if not, set it free...many blessings passed your way =0 )
2007-09-14 02:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have no business going through her email account.
Second you have no business telling who she can and can't speak too.
Third She's lucky you are not close enough to break her head in two.
Fourth, if this has made you question her interest in you then break up with her.
You both will be better off
2007-09-14 02:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think you should talk to her about your feelings and uncertainties no point running in with guns going you might have the wrong end of the stick talk is the best answer you might get some answers at least this way you will know instead of jumping to conclusions mind stay calm good luck
2007-09-14 02:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by margaret d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if I was your girlfriend I would be soooooo angry about you going through my emails.
Try talking to her. Don't mention the emails, but ask her straight if she wants to be with you.
2007-09-14 02:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Control yourself, just bring it to her attention, and ask why. If you don't like her answer then walk away.......do nothing more than that.
2007-09-14 02:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, but remember......words are words, she has a lot of proving to do!
2007-09-14 02:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by Paula D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋