Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

So there's a guy that I've been hanging out with for about a month and a half...long story short...he doesn't want anything serious, we've had sex but not lately, he's been distant because he doesn't want me to "get the wrong idea" aka doesn't want to lead me on....i like him....he likes hanging out with me and just being with me sexually or not....am i wasting my time?? I mean I really like this guy and I understand he's been in a serious relationship for the past 4 years of his life and just wants to enjoy being single for a while....and it doesn't help that I want him soooo bad! What should I do?!

2007-09-14 08:40:47 · 29 answers · asked by malassa07 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 08:40:36 · 65 answers · asked by dave c 3 in Family

my friends mom is abused by her hubby. i have never seen this happen but beleive my friend completely. I dont know if anyone knows about this, and i know that my friend and her siblings could become victoms of this abuse. My sister says i should just but out but i dont knoww if my friend told me this information because she WANTED me to tell someone about this. I dopnt know what i should do. Please Help me.

2007-09-14 08:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Girls, do you blush when you talk to a guy you fancy?
Must a girl blush when talking to a guy she likes?
I know it's a natural thing but do some people blush only sometimes?

2007-09-14 08:35:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The only thing thats get me thru the evenings at the mo is this. Don't mean to go on each night but i need opinions it helps me. If you was 39 and so was your partner, You was dating him or her for 3 years and then you asked him for committment because you wanted to be with him and spend your life with him. They then told you 'sorry i can't offer you a future, you have been an amazing partner and i must let you go to find another. I want to be single again as i want to do my own thing more. I love you very much but i'm not in love. I care about you and want you to be happy. I talked to him twice asked him to reconsider and stay together without the committment thing. We just live apart, but enjoy each other also. He said no as he knows in his heart i want a committment. But i do, but only with him. He was honest yes, but didn't need to end it did he. We never argued, had great sex, and did so much together. Should i ask him again to reconsider. do you think he fell out of lv?

2007-09-14 08:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law does this thing where if my kid(s) do something hers has to do it to & better. My sons aren't very sporty but her boys like to play sports & do moto-cross, I won't let them race because I know how dangerous the sport is (just this summer a kid was almost killed during a moto-cross race), she claims her boys know how to ride so something like that won't happen.Our kids go to a inner-city school (in her words theres nothing but druggies & losers in that school & hers go to a school that is in a better neighborhood but they are in the same school district. We bought a new car she went out & bought a new car too. We where trying for a baby she got pregnant too. We get something new she has to go get something simalar only better. I just put my daughter into ballet so now she wants her daughter to be in dance too but something more up-beat & not as boring as ballet. all this doesn't bother me & I know that she (her household) isn't any better mine it just gets annoying.

2007-09-14 08:32:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok lets say this guy chased you for a whole school year. But you already had a bf. And then you started to develope feelings for him. Well the summer comes along and you two dont see each other for 3 months. Then when school starts back up again you see him. But he gives a mutual friend (also female) flowers as a "welcom back" gift right in fron of you, and he doesn't get you anything. Would you be jealous?angry? not care? What i need to know

2007-09-14 08:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by mallymal1000 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 08:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by Dragia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am at the beginning of a divorce and have no intentions of dating anytime soon. However, my grandmother (who divorced at 25 with two kids and never re-married) keeps telling me to get used to the idea of being a single mom forever. She insists that "no one will want a divorced mother of three". I will be 24 in December and my children are 4, 2, and I am due in a few weeks with my third. I am a strong Christian woman and I am dedicated to my family. Howvever, my soon to be ex has had 5 affairs and says he doesn't love me and doesn't want me. Being completely honest.... are there men out there who are willing to accept an amazing woman who comes with three wonderful children?

My soon to be ex will pick up another chick ASAP without a problem. That's what is really screwed up about this whole thing. He'll move on with single life and the kids and I will be left to suffer the consequences.

2007-09-14 08:16:59 · 35 answers · asked by mrs michelle 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im afraid coz soon im going to get marry, but have no experience of having sex....is there anything through which i can give more pleasure to girl\wife.....

2007-09-14 08:16:16 · 27 answers · asked by ally 1 in Weddings

when the wife asks her husband to do one thing he acts as if your asking him to do a ten mile run. For example Can you stop by and grab me something to eat. or if your wife has changed her mind and its just 5 min that passed and he acts as if he has a hot date with the chair

2007-09-14 08:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so would any of you guys pretend to be an other guy ??? because today on here some guy got a picture of my brother johnny from hot or not..and he said it was him...(lmao)how stupid is that !! i never thought a guy would do somehting like tha ????..is that guy insecure about himself that he would say its him?...but would any of you guys do that ??????

2007-09-14 08:15:33 · 11 answers · asked by I walk,my walk & Talk,my talk 3 in Singles & Dating

Nowadays I find many Grandmas and Grandpas are very affectionate with the Grandchildren. When compare to parents , these children prefer to approach the grand parents. I wonder what is the reason behind that, and I am expecting a good answer from the grandchildrens.

2007-09-14 08:13:01 · 30 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Family

Say you're in a longterm relationship for about 3+ years & you caome across this message on your lover's phone
" a kiss can be a wonderful thing, all I can sy is that you have really soft lips & I would like to feel them again soon." But the thing is, its saved in drafts. You tell them about it & they deny that it was for someone else. They insists that it was meant for you. would you buy it??? now remember, your relationship is sexual....

2007-09-14 08:07:18 · 19 answers · asked by Lue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the proper etiquette regarding what the mother of the groom wears at the wedding? I was told that she should ask the mother of the bride what she's wearing and then coordinate from that standpoint. Are the bride's wishes or her mother's the ones to go by?

2007-09-14 08:05:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really dont know..but whch feels better?..having sex with ligh on or off?

2007-09-14 08:04:08 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why are some men scared of love???

2007-09-14 08:03:52 · 5 answers · asked by georgia f 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance finally got a job in my "neck of the woods" and will be moving in at the end of the month. I have some extra money for working a lot of overtime and want to do something special for him. Any suggestions??

2007-09-14 07:56:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 07:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by Matthew A 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my bestfriends called Steph has been asking me when my birthday is for the past few weeks and I've told her October the 24th and everytime I say this she goes, Oh ****.
Why does she keep doing this?

2007-09-14 07:43:47 · 17 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Friends

Because mine and my exgirlfriend's bestfriend(me and my ex are still friend) has been telling me about her period for the past few days so, I was just wondering if it's normal for a girl to tell one of her bestfriends who's a guy about this, I know she'd probably tell my ex but me, it just seems wierd.

2007-09-14 07:40:35 · 57 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Friends

2007-09-14 07:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's paradoxical n ironical as it may sound but what should a person do when caught in a dilemma like this? Wanted to give up but on the other hand lack willingness to do so. Carry on with her but painful thought kept haunting.

2007-09-14 07:37:59 · 10 answers · asked by boonji86 2 in Singles & Dating

My good friend's bday is next week and her boyfrend is buying her a spa treatment at a resort as a present. He wrote me a beg email saying she really wants me to go with her and since we exchange gifts anyway, if I go then that can be my present to her. I replied ok

I looked up the hotel he wants to take her to and the least expensive thing is $150, and the spa is not my thing, I dont like laying there for hours while people poke at me. we wouldnt even get to be in the same room during the treatment. I feel if I tell her now, she'll be upset with me and pull the "its my bday, you should do what I want" act. I know I shoud of said no to begin with but too late now.

Is there a compromise to this situation? I was thinking of saying to her, "this is pretty expensive and we wouldnt even get to be together. Can I take you for a pedicure and drinks instead? I will still go with you and lay by the pool while you are in the spa if you want someone to bewith you"

What do you think?

2007-09-14 07:37:50 · 3 answers · asked by Snarf 3 in Friends

My boyfriend and I are going to a wedding on October 6th. He is one of the groomsmen wearing a black tux and orange vest, and the bridesmaids are wearing brown. I'm thinking about wearing a halter dress that hits mid calf. The color is David's Bridals oasis, which is kind of a calipso color with black undertones. Because it is the first weekend of october I'm planning on wearing it with black heals and a black cashmire wrap.

What do you think??

My only concern is that I wore it to his sister's wedding this past March, and his whole family is coming to the wedding as well.

2007-09-14 07:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Carlymw7 2 in Weddings

My daughter's dad see her once a week and doesn't pay child support and does not buy her anything. My parents and grand-parents help me with her.Also hes seeing another women with a 2 week old baby that he says inn't his but I talkes care of her like she is. If he can't take care of 1 what makes her think he can raise her child too.Should I let him come and bring her and the baby too or should I just tell him know cuz he don't take care of her? Any advice on deadbeat dads?

2007-09-14 07:33:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have two friends that I love spending time with but they have money and I don't!! They are always wanting to go out and party or go on trips!! When I get some extra money and can go out with them they get annoyed when we can't do everything they wnat to do because I don't have enough money. Should I just get some poor friends like me??

2007-09-14 07:33:35 · 13 answers · asked by Danielle G 2 in Friends

I'm 16 and he is 18 (as of yesterday). So...we are a bit less than two years apart. Never been an issue with us tho.

My cousin in her mid twenties is getting married in November of this year.

I live in East TN, and her wedding is in Nashville (opposite end of TN.)

My boyfriend and I have been uber close and dating for two years.

He has never met her, but, I only see her about once or twice a year so he hasn't had the chance too.

Could I/Should I ask him to come with me (and my parents who he has met oh-so many times)?

I would like him to come with me...It'd be nice and a chance for him to meet the rest of family.

I am really close to his family, tremendously. I know them all.

But he hasn't been able to meet mine before due to whatever reason it was that he had.

So. Could I ask him?

We have discussed weddings (what we think of them, etc)
and things before and everything along that nature.

2007-09-14 07:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Dad died a few years ago and I want to have a poem in the program for him. Is there any sites that anyone can reccomend to me. I have looked but only come up with a few that I like "ok".

2007-09-14 07:32:29 · 2 answers · asked by rae 3 in Weddings

My son-in-law has his priority so screwed up he plays softball 2 nights a week and then all week-end, my daughter is pregnant ,due in 2 weeks, & with another baby a year old He will night change we have all tried to talk to him and he says he will not change he has done this all his life, he is 22 years old my daughter is 20. We are so sick of his crap,please give a mother some advice they cannot afford to be on their own, so they live with us. we love our daughter dearly and grand-babies

2007-09-14 07:32:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce