Going to wedding, is it appropriate/okay to ask bf to come too?

Question

I'm 16 and he is 18 (as of yesterday). So...we are a bit less than two years apart. Never been an issue with us tho.

My cousin in her mid twenties is getting married in November of this year.

I live in East TN, and her wedding is in Nashville (opposite end of TN.)

My boyfriend and I have been uber close and dating for two years.

He has never met her, but, I only see her about once or twice a year so he hasn't had the chance too.

Could I/Should I ask him to come with me (and my parents who he has met oh-so many times)?

I would like him to come with me...It'd be nice and a chance for him to meet the rest of family.

I am really close to his family, tremendously. I know them all.

But he hasn't been able to meet mine before due to whatever reason it was that he had.

So. Could I ask him?

We have discussed weddings (what we think of them, etc)
and things before and everything along that nature.

Answer 1

You should check with the bride and groom first, for etiquette.

If they say it's ok, do ask him to come...but don't insist he does if you can tell he doesn't want to.
Also make sure he doesn't see it as "your hint that you want to marry him". Because that just might scare the hell out of him.

Answer 2

i bypass with purely taking pictures back an casual email asking in the event that they have room for yet another customer and in case you may convey him alongside. As an upcoming bride i'd fairly human beings ask then purely convey somebody alongside and assume this is fantastic or isn't. purely ask... the worst element they'd say would be no they have not got the room.

Answer 3

It depends on the wedding. If it's on the fancy side, they have probably already planned for a certain number of guests. If you feel you're close enough to ask, you probably could, but they may feel awkward and tell you OK, even though it may not be.

Answer 4

OF course

Answer 5

yes you should!!!