The only thing thats get me thru the evenings at the mo is this. Don't mean to go on each night but i need opinions it helps me. If you was 39 and so was your partner, You was dating him or her for 3 years and then you asked him for committment because you wanted to be with him and spend your life with him. They then told you 'sorry i can't offer you a future, you have been an amazing partner and i must let you go to find another. I want to be single again as i want to do my own thing more. I love you very much but i'm not in love. I care about you and want you to be happy. I talked to him twice asked him to reconsider and stay together without the committment thing. We just live apart, but enjoy each other also. He said no as he knows in his heart i want a committment. But i do, but only with him. He was honest yes, but didn't need to end it did he. We never argued, had great sex, and did so much together. Should i ask him again to reconsider. do you think he fell out of lv?
2007-09-14 08:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either he fell out of love or has a phobia about committment. If the relationship was "perfect", the something was wrong.
If you are seriously in love with him, then give him time and space to find out if he wants to be with you.
2007-09-14 08:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Queen Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was doing the best thing for you. Be glad he's telling you now instead of later down the road. It's best to move on and try to find someone that will love you the way you want. If you stay with him you will not be as happy. Try to move on if you can. Good luck.
2007-09-14 08:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To fall out of love you first have to have been in love.* I don't believe he qualifies or fits that definition.*
2007-09-14 08:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋