Say you're in a longterm relationship for about 3+ years & you caome across this message on your lover's phone
" a kiss can be a wonderful thing, all I can sy is that you have really soft lips & I would like to feel them again soon." But the thing is, its saved in drafts. You tell them about it & they deny that it was for someone else. They insists that it was meant for you. would you buy it??? now remember, your relationship is sexual....
2007-09-14 08:07:18 · 19 answers · asked by Lue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He used to send messages like that, but not anymore & the only reason I saw that message is because he picked up my phone to see if I had anything to hide, he was right there when I saw it..
2007-09-14 08:17:26 · update #1
umm yea it was not ment for u... why would it say "again" i say u keep him on check make sure if he's cheating.... and the tone he wrote it in sounds like it was defenetly for someone else
2007-09-14 08:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, you don't trust him. If you did you wouldn't be searching through his phone. If you look for something you will find it and it will hurt. So until you can trust him and stop searching through his phone you are going to be annoyed. Trust him and then if you find out evidence that he's actually cheating then you know what to do. It's just a message.
Don't take it personal. After 3+ years then you find this message, that's crazy. Just stay focus you know us women is like secret investigators. Men can't hide anything, but as a woman you can't give off any signals until you know for sure. Don't tell him anything just keep doing what you doing and soon are later the truth will come out.
2007-09-14 15:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been in a sexual relationship for 3+ years...if you asked him and he denied that message and told you that its not for him than why would have any reason to doubt that he is telling you the truth ?? If you never found anything else but just that message than it could have been for someone else now him saying that its for you doesnt really make to much sense..I think you need to talk to him and if its just a sexual relationship that sounds like friends with benefits it doesnt sound like a seriouse relationship and if its not than you should not care whats on that answering machine if its for him..
Good Luck
2007-09-14 15:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have a so called open book policy...we can look at each others phone or look at one another's emails....we don't have anything to hide....I don't feel the need to look on my husband's phone...but if I did...and came across that message....I would be wondering who it was for...because if he meant for the message to be sent to me...he wouldn't have left it in a draft...besides even if in draft it says who the message is suppose to be going to.
2007-09-14 15:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't say what # it was going to in drafts? Mine does. Check that out to be sure.
I wouldn't buy it...but I'm a non-trusting person anyway. It could very well have been for you...does he send you messages like that ever?
2007-09-14 15:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..first of all, if the message was to you..why is he waiting 3 years to tell you your lips are soft and he wants to feel them again?? he should of said that in the beginning when yall first got together... BUT you never know. thats just my opinion.
but i agree with the first answer. dont make assumptions until you know what really going on
2007-09-14 15:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Texas Gal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl they're cheating I don't care what they say.
Did you ever receive any of these from this person?
They probably told you that they never sent
them to you because they were a "work in progress", they were saving them for a holiday, or that they were afraid you'd think they were stupid right?
2007-09-14 15:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm split 50/50 on this one, in my experience, when it's saved like that or you come across something like that, I would tend to lean toward it being for someone else.
2007-09-14 15:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really really really beyong a doubt would think that bastard is cheating on me. There's no way that message was for you. That is definitely a NEW kiss. I am so sorry but this is something that would boil my blood if it happened to me. I'm mad just thinking about it! Talk to him about it right now. and be strong!
2007-09-14 15:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... sounds like he only kissed this person once... and wants to kiss them again... this could be a message for someone else, but, it depends on previous messages he sent you in the past... I don't know about this one... hmmm... have you ever suspected him cheating before?
2007-09-14 15:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends, is your relationship having problems, if yes then it might have been to someone else. Check his cell phone records. See who he's been talking to.
2007-09-14 15:13:12 · answer #11 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋